Stephen Snyder MD

Stephen Snyder MD, a sex and relationship therapist, discusses the nature of desire, cultivating mindful moments of inspiration, frustration in relationships, the importance of getting dumb and happy with your partner, finding your voice, the role of selfishness in eroticism, the negative impact of pressure on the erotic mind, and setting limits in the 21st century.

In this conversation with Dr. Stephen Snyder, a medical doctor and author of "Love Worth Making," listeners dive deep into the emotional aspects of sex beyond the physical. He presents a two-step framework for enhancing intimacy, emphasizing mindfulness and emotional presence. The podcast discusses 'lazy sex'—encouraging couples to prioritize genuine connection over performance pressure. Real-life stories illustrate how couples manage desire discrepancies, making love not just a checklist, but a satisfying experience that fosters mutual enjoyment.

Dr. Stephen Snyder, a New York City sex therapist and author of Love Worth Making, dives into creating emotional intimacy and fostering desire in relationships. He discusses the importance of sexual feelings, exploring a two-step approach to enhance motivation. Snyder introduces the concept of 'lazy sex' to maintain connection amidst busy lives, and highlights 'simmering' as a way to encourage desire. Finally, he sheds light on the difference between giving and taking pleasure, emphasizing emotional validation as key to satisfying intimacy.