Michelle Mays, Licensed Professional Counselor and expert in treating sexual betrayal and trauma, explores the devastating impact of betrayal on attachment bonds, shattering trust and leaving betrayed partners feeling unsafe. She discusses the connection between childhood trauma and adult betrayals, the three types of betrayal trauma traps, and the role of fear and powerlessness in hindering healing. Mays emphasizes the interconnectedness of fear, shame, and powerlessness in the healing process and the importance of addressing both present and childhood trauma.