The Living Truth Podcast - Freedom From Unwanted Sexual Behavior, Hope & Healing For the Betrayed The Betrayal Bind with Michelle Mays - Part 2 of 2
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May 1, 2023 In this insightful discussion, Michelle Mays, a certified sex addiction therapist and betrayal trauma specialist, delves into her new book, The Betrayal Bind. She addresses the complexities of betrayal blindness and its impact on emotional healing. Michelle explores how childhood attachment styles play a crucial role in coping with betrayal, emphasizing the need for resilience and support. She further discusses the emotional struggles of betrayed partners, highlighting the importance of professional guidance for navigating this painful journey.
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Betrayal Blindness
- Betrayed partners often experience betrayal blindness, an attachment-based coping mechanism.
- They avoid acknowledging the betrayal to protect their connection, hindering healing.
Facing Reality
- Betrayed partners must face their reality, even if painful, to heal.
- Building internal resilience and expanding tolerance for scary moments is crucial.
Abandonment Terror
- Relational disconnection can trigger abandonment terror, especially for those with childhood trauma.
- Adults, however, always have themselves, offering a foundation for healing.