In four steps, experts Eve Rodsky and Jacqueline Misla explain how to fairly split domestic work with a partner or roommate. Don't forget to print out the handy zine!Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

So much of America’s social safety net has been built on top of women’s unpaid labor. And while we know traditional gender roles still persist, how much have they contributed to the gender gap at work? Is it possible that to achieve true gender equity in the workplace, women must first achieve it in the home? Eve Rodsky, author and producer of the documentary “Fair Play” explores this question as she unpacks the true cost — and impact — of women bearing the household mental load. Continue the conversation on LinkedIn and, if you’re interested in joining the Chief network, apply to be a member at Chief.com. Note: This episode contains explicit language.

Eve Rodsky, author of Fair Play, helps couples build more equitable relationships by addressing the labor disparity at home. They discuss the Second Shift and how it harms women. The Fair Play Doctrine offers exercises and conversation starters for eradicating this imbalance. They also highlight the importance of accountability, trust, and implementing an equitable division of labor. The chapter on letting go of perfection and learning from mistakes emphasizes the significance of allowing partners to learn and grow. Additionally, they discuss the value of playing a question-based game to strengthen the relationship.

Authors Eve Rodsky and KC Davis, along with the Struggle Care podcast, discuss the challenges and strategies for achieving a fair division of labor at home. They address problems with traditional gender roles, the importance of equal rest, and strategies for navigating the division of labor in relationships. They also emphasize the importance of appreciation and share a creative solution for excess Halloween candy.

Eve Rodsky, promoting a new solution to the division of labor problem. How women shoulder most unpaid domestic work. How her book, Fair Play, offers practical ways to divide labor. The mindset shifts needed for fair play. The harmful norms hurting us all. The importance of accountability and trust. The mental load of tasks. Viewing boundaries with a fresh perspective. Finding your "unicorn space".