Dan Holmes

Stephanie and Dan Holmes, certified specialists in neurodiversity and ordained ministers, dive deep into the unique challenges of neurodiverse marriages. They discuss the vital roles of communication and boundaries in resolving conflicts where there’s no clear 'right' answer. The couple explores how faith and rigid belief systems can complicate relationships, emphasizing the importance of curiosity and emotional understanding. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their differences and remain teachable for long-term growth.

In this conversation, Stephanie Holmes, a certified autism specialist and neurodiverse marriage therapist, and her husband Dan, a seasoned systems architect and Master Life Coach, dive into the dynamics of neurodiverse relationships. They share insights on transitioning from therapy to coaching, the importance of building individual skills, and how Dan's cooking eased Stephanie's mental load. They discuss navigating emotional differences, dealing with miscommunication, and learning to validate each other's feelings for a thriving partnership. Their journey showcases how faith and intentional communication can overcome challenges.

Join Stephanie Holmes, a certified autism and neurodiverse marriage specialist, and her husband Dan, a certified master life coach, as they delve into the intricate dynamics of neurodiverse relationships. They discuss the vital distinction between 'wanting to' and 'wanting to want to,' highlighting the need for concrete actions to match intentions. The couple shares insights on navigating expectations for neurotypical and autistic partners, emphasizing humility, teachability, and open communication as keys to growth and healthy connections.