Andrew Solomon

In this episode, Dr. Andrew Solomon, the author of Far from the Tree, discusses the emotional complexities of parenting kids who may not mirror their parents' identities. He emphasizes the beauty of embracing differences and nurturing curiosity and acceptance in family dynamics. The conversation touches on the balance of instilling values while allowing for individuality. Solomon also highlights how understanding unique identities can strengthen parent-child connections, fostering both growth and confidence.

We’re increasingly attentive to the many faces of depression and anxiety, and we’re fluent in the languages of psychology and medication. But depression is profound spiritual territory; and that is much harder to speak about. This is an On Being classic. Krista opens up about her own experience of depression and talks with Parker Palmer, Anita Barrows, and Andrew Solomon. We are putting this out on the air again because people tell us it has saved lives, and so many of us are struggling in whole new ways right now.Andrew Solomon is a journalist and writer of epic books, including the Pulitzer Prize finalist  The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression, and Far from the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity.Anita Barrows is a psychologist, poet and translator. Her most recent poetry collection is We are the Hunger. She has translated several volumes of the writings of Rainer Maria Rilke together with  Joanna Macy, including Rilke's Book of Hours: Love Poems to God.Parker J. Palmer is a teacher, author, and founder and senior partner emeritus of the Center for Courage & Renewal. His many books include Healing the Heart of Democracy, Let Your Life Speak, and On the Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity, and Getting Old. Find the transcript for this show at onbeing.orgThis show originally aired January 17, 2003

There are an infinite number of ways to be a happy family, and just as many ways to be an unhappy one, says Andrew Solomon. This hour, the author and psychologist discusses modern family dynamics — and how families can find joy even when life gets complicated.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

Andrew Solomon, a professor of clinical psychology and a prominent mental health advocate, shares his insights on the intricate relationship between identity and depression. He challenges societal norms and explores the importance of resilience in overcoming adversity. Solomon sheds light on the mental health challenges faced by today's youth, particularly related to social media. He also discusses the complexities of modern family dynamics and advocates for a broader vocabulary to discuss non-traditional families, emphasizing empathy and support.

This is the unedited conversation Krista had with Andrew Solomon in 2002, which is excerpted within our produced episode “The Soul in Depression.” That episode also includes the voices of Anita Barrows and Parker Palmer.  Find the transcript for that show at onbeing.org. Andrew Solomon is a journalist and writer of epic books, including the Pulitzer Prize finalist  The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression, and Far from the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity.