

Alain de Botton
Internationally renowned philosopher and author. Founder of The School of Life, known for his thoughtful take on the complexities of modern life.
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Dec 28, 2023 • 1h 35min
The Love Expert: We've Built A Loveless Society & It's Making Us Depressed! (here's the fix!) Alain De Botton
Alain de Botton, a British author and philosopher, discusses the disconnect in modern relationships and the role of love in our lives. He examines how unprocessed emotions and societal pressures contribute to mental health issues, urging self-awareness as a key to healthier connections. The conversation explores the idea that love is a skill that requires practice and understanding, as well as the benefits of space in rekindling romance. De Botton emphasizes the importance of listening and confronting past traumas for personal growth and deeper emotional intimacy.

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Nov 18, 2024 • 1h 12min
20VC Alain De Botton on Why Companies Are Not Families | Why Status is Making You Miserable | Why Parents Want Their Kids to Fail | Why We Are Richer Yet More Anxious Than Ever & Why You Should Not Always "Be Yourself"
Alain De Botton, a renowned philosopher and author, delves into the complexities of modern life. He discusses how the relentless pursuit of status contributes to our anxiety, despite societal wealth. De Botton critiques the idea of companies as families, arguing it can hinder genuine connections. He also explores why some parents unconsciously push their children toward failure and dismantles the myth of meritocracy. Finally, he emphasizes the importance of finding meaningful work in a world that often prioritizes superficial achievements.

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Nov 10, 2015 • 1h 56min
#118: How Philosophy Can Change Your Life, Alain de Botton
Alain de Botton (@alaindebotton) is many things, but I think of him as a rare breed of practical philosopher. In 1997, he turned away from writing novels and instead wrote an extended essay titled How Proust Can Change Your Life, which became an unlikely blockbuster. His subsequent books have been described as a ‘philosophy of everyday life’ and subjects include love, travel, architecture, religion and work. His other bestsellers include Essays In Love, Status Anxiety, and The Architecture Of Happiness. More recent works include The News: A User’s Manual, which looks at the impact our obsession with checking news has on our minds, and Art as Therapy, co-written with the art historian John Armstrong. In 2008, de Botton helped start The School of Life in London, a social enterprise determined to make learning and therapy relevant in today's uptight culture. His goal is (through any of his mediums) to help clients learn "how to live wisely and well." In our wide-ranging conversation, we cover many things, including: Real-world versus academic philosophy The value of rituals and tribes Practical pessimism "Ordinary genius" The magic of pomegranates Lesser-known modern thinkers Why "mean" is often simply "anxious" His favorite Japanese pens And much more! Show notes and links for this episode can be found at www.fourhourworkweek.com/podcast. This podcast is brought to you by 99Designs, the world’s largest marketplace of graphic designers. I have used them for years to create some amazing designs. When your business needs a logo, website design, business card, or anything you can imagine, check out 99Designs. I used them to rapid prototype the cover for The 4-Hour Body, and I've also had them help with display advertising and illustrations. If you want a more personalized approach, I recommend their 1-on-1 service, which is non-spec. You get original designs from designers around the world. The best part? You provide your feedback, and then you end up with a product that you're happy with or your money back. Click this link and get a free $99 upgrade. Give it a test run… This podcast is also brought to you by Vimeo Pro, which is the ideal video hosting platform for entrepreneurs. In fact, a bunch of my start-ups are already using Vimeo Pro. WealthFront uses it to explain how WealthFront works. TaskRabbit uses it to tell the company’s story. There are many other names who you would recognize among their customers (AirBnB, Etsy, etc.) Why do they use it? Vimeo Pro provides enterprise level video hosting for a fraction of the usual cost. Features include: Gorgeous high-quality playback with no ads Up to 20 GB of video storage every week Unlimited plays and views A fully customizable video player, which can include your company logo, custom outro, and more You get all this for just $199 per year (that’s only $17 per/mo.). There are no complicated bandwidth calculations or hidden fees. Try it risk-free for 30 days. Just go to Vimeo.com/business to check it out. If you like it, you can use the promo code “Tim” to get 25% off. This is a special discount just for you guys.***If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews!For show notes and past guests, please visit tim.blog/podcast.Sign up for Tim’s email newsletter (“5-Bullet Friday”) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Interested in sponsoring the podcast? Visit tim.blog/sponsor and fill out the form.Discover Tim’s books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss YouTube: youtube.com/timferrissPast guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld, Hugh Jackman, Dr. Jane Goodall, LeBron James, Kevin Hart, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Jamie Foxx, Matthew McConaughey, Esther Perel, Elizabeth Gilbert, Terry Crews, Sia, Yuval Noah Harari, Malcolm Gladwell, Madeleine Albright, Cheryl Strayed, Jim Collins, Mary Karr, Maria Popova, Sam Harris, Michael Phelps, Bob Iger, Edward Norton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Neil Strauss, Ken Burns, Maria Sharapova, Marc Andreessen, Neil Gaiman, Neil de Grasse Tyson, Jocko Willink, Daniel Ek, Kelly Slater, Dr. Peter Attia, Seth Godin, Howard Marks, Dr. Brené Brown, Eric Schmidt, Michael Lewis, Joe Gebbia, Michael Pollan, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Vince Vaughn, Brian Koppelman, Ramit Sethi, Dax Shepard, Tony Robbins, Jim Dethmer, Dan Harris, Ray Dalio, Naval Ravikant, Vitalik Buterin, Elizabeth Lesser, Amanda Palmer, Katie Haun, Sir Richard Branson, Chuck Palahniuk, Arianna Huffington, Reid Hoffman, Bill Burr, Whitney Cummings, Rick Rubin, Dr. Vivek Murthy, Darren Aronofsky, and many more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Feb 11, 2021 • 51min
Alain de Botton — The True Hard Work of Love and Relationships
As people, and as a culture, Alain de Botton says, we would be much saner and happier if we reexamined our very view of love. His New York Times essay, “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person,” is one of their most-read articles in recent years, and this is one of the most popular episodes we’ve ever created. We offer up the anchoring truths he shares amidst a pandemic that has stretched all of our sanity — and tested the mettle of love in every relationship.Alain de Botton is the founder and chairman of The School of Life. His books include Religion for Atheists and How Proust Can Change Your Life. He’s also published many books as part of The School of Life’s offerings, including a chapbook created from his essay Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person.Find the transcript for this show at onbeing.orgThis show originally aired on February 9, 2017.

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Sep 17, 2024 • 1h 4min
ALAIN DE BOTTON: WE LOOK FOR FAMILIARITY NOT HAPPINESS IN RELATIONSHIPS
Alain de Botton, a modern philosopher and founder of The School of Life, dives deep into the essence of love and relationships. He explains how our childhood shapes our emotional responses, influencing the way we form attachments in adulthood. The discussion unfolds around heartbreak, self-awareness, and the idea that familiarity often outweighs the pursuit of happiness in love. Alain emphasizes the importance of nurturing self-compassion and confronting past traumas as a pathway to personal growth and healthier connections.

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Nov 13, 2023 • 57min
Alain de Botton: Lessons on Love and Life
Alain de Botton, prolific author and philosopher, discusses the impact of love and mental breakdowns on life. They also explore the importance of facing uncomfortable truths, the role of sleep and physical needs in mental health, and the power of authentic friendships. Overall, they uncover the elements that contribute to a life of greatness and inner peace.

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May 22, 2025 • 24min
BITESIZE | The Truth About Modern Anxiety & A Surprising Way To Find Joy and Meaning | Alain de Botton #558
In this engaging talk, Alain de Botton, an internationally renowned philosopher and founder of The School of Life, explores the concept of 'cheerful pessimism.' He argues that accepting a melancholic outlook can lead to greater fulfillment in a world obsessed with relentless happiness. Alain discusses how status anxiety shapes modern identities, and how small joys—like nature, pets, and children—can offer comfort amidst societal pressures. He emphasizes the importance of embracing imperfections and finding genuine meaning alongside life's struggles.

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Jun 4, 2025 • 35min
How Asking One Hard Question Builds Deeper Trust, with Alain de Botton
Alain de Botton, a modern-day philosopher and co-founder of The School of Life, delves into the power of uncomfortable questions in building trust. He argues that asking, 'How have I annoyed you?' can deepen relationships at home and work. The discussion emphasizes the importance of emotional generosity, honest listening, and vulnerability. Listeners learn how awkward inquiries foster deeper connections, the science behind emotional closeness, and the transformative potential of being truly heard in both personal and professional spaces.

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Jul 19, 2024 • 11min
Moment 171: STOP DOING THIS! It's Ruining Your Sex Life
Alain de Botton, a Swiss-British philosopher renowned for integrating philosophy into daily life, shares insights on enhancing intimacy in relationships. He emphasizes that communication is key, revealing how issues in a couple's sex life often mirror broader relational problems. By reflecting on individual roles as partners and fostering trust, couples can overcome barriers. De Botton also discusses the emotional complexities of intimacy and the importance of humor in maintaining romantic attraction, showing that love thrives beyond mere sexual encounters.

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Sep 15, 2019 • 38min
#217 Alain de Botton: Life As A Process
Alain de Botton, a writer of essayistic books, shares insights on the School of Life's purpose in creating a physical space for connection and learning. They discuss self-help and self-care, balancing artistic integrity with commercialization, the value of paying for things, and finding joy in the small moments.