On Being with Krista Tippett Alain de Botton — The True Hard Work of Love and Relationships
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Feb 11, 2021 
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Flawed Humanity
- Acceptance of ourselves as flawed creatures is essential in love.
- Love is most necessary when we feel incomplete, and we must show love at those points.
Romantic Ideals
- Our romantic narratives often misrepresent love, focusing only on the initial romance.
- The start of a relationship is just a small part of a longer journey.
Pessimism as a Tool
- Accept that your partner may never change, which can ease relationship tensions.
- This pessimism can help you appreciate your partner as they are.