The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Most Replayed Moment: Alain de Botton - Individualism Is Making Us Miserable!
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Aug 22, 2025 
Join Alain de Botton, a prominent philosopher and founder of The School of Life, as he analyzes the psychological impact of individualism in modern society. He argues that despite progress, mental health issues are on the rise, particularly among youth, due to high societal expectations. De Botton contrasts ancient communal values with today’s meritocracy, suggesting that this quest for perfection can lead to isolation. He advocates for prioritizing genuine connections over material success, reminding us that the path to fulfillment lies in embracing our imperfections.
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Loss Of Larger Narratives
- Modern life removes the comforting larger narrative religions provided and makes the present moment feel supremely important.
- Alain de Botton argues this inflation of self-importance fuels anxiety and undermines calm.
Accepting Human Imperfection
- Religions normalize human imperfection and shift perfection to another realm, reducing pressure in daily life.
- De Botton says this acceptance fosters vulnerability, friendship, and emotional ease.
Happiness As Modern Burden
- Modern emphasis on perfection and present happiness intensifies self-scrutiny and suffering.
- De Botton links the pursuit of happiness as central goal to new psychological pressures.
