

1081 How to Create a Lasting Relationship & Build Intimacy w/Dr. Laura Berman
Mar 8, 2021
In this engaging discussion, Dr. Laura Berman, a leading expert in sex and relationship therapy, shares her invaluable insights on building intimacy and healing from trauma. She emphasizes the importance of self-love as the foundation for meaningful relationships. The conversation delves into healthy breakups, navigating grief, and the power of vulnerability in fostering connection. Dr. Berman also provides practical strategies for emotional healing and highlights the transformational nature of heartbreak, encouraging listeners to embrace pain as a path to growth.
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Prioritizing Sex
- Prioritize sex in your relationship, even if it's just one aspect of it.
- When sex isn't working, it often indicates a deeper disconnect in the relationship.
Emotional Intimacy
- The greatest predictor of sexual satisfaction for women is emotional intimacy and connection with their partner.
- This is more important than physical aspects like orgasm frequency or partner endowment.
Disconnection as Protection
- Women's disconnection during sex is often a protective mechanism against vulnerability, inhibitions, trauma, or disassociation.
- This disconnection can stem from past experiences and ingrained beliefs about sex.