TBP 279: Overcoming Fear of Climbing Above Bolt - A Mindset Coaching Session
Dec 18, 2024
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In this insightful session, guest Nathaniel Lamont, a dedicated Canadian sport climber, tackles his fear of falling above bolts. Over six years of climbing experience, Nathaniel’s struggles resonate deeply within the climbing community. They explore the psychological roots of his fear and establish strategies for gradual exposure through intentional fall practice. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication with belayers and techniques like mindfulness. This honest discussion inspires climbers to confront their fears, enhancing both skills and confidence.
Nathaniel's fear of falling above bolts in climbing is rooted in past injuries and overthinking, which significantly hampers his performance and confidence.
The podcast emphasizes a structured approach to overcoming fear through gradual fall practice, allowing climbers to build confidence in a safe environment.
Fostering open communication with belayers and creating a supportive climbing community are crucial strategies for addressing fear and enhancing overall climbing experiences.
Deep dives
Understanding Coaching vs. Therapy
Coaching focuses on guiding individuals to achieve specific goals, emphasizing high-functioning clients rather than addressing deep trauma, which is typically the realm of therapy. The podcast clarifies that while both coaching and therapy can involve discussions of emotions and past experiences, coaching aims to facilitate concrete outcomes and behavioral changes without diagnosing mental health issues. This distinction is crucial for listeners seeking to understand what they can expect from coaching sessions, especially in highly emotional contexts like climbing. The speaker highlights their training and experience to establish credibility in working with climbers on their fears and performance issues.
Fear of Falling in Climbing
The discussion centers on Nathaniel's struggle with the fear of falling while sport climbing, particularly when above a bolt. This fear stems from past experiences, including a significant injury and overthinking the risks involved in climbing. Nathaniel expresses frustration at his inability to fully engage in the sport he loves due to this fear, which impacts not only his performance but also his confidence within the climbing community. The conversation reveals that the fear of falling affects both his ability to push his limits and the joy that climbing typically brings.
Creating a Fear-Management Protocol
In response to the discussed fears, a protocol for gradually addressing them is developed, focusing on fall practice in a safe and structured manner. Taking falls on top rope before going for climbs allows Nathaniel to build confidence without overwhelming himself. The proposed plan includes slowly increasing the height of falls and integrating them into regular climbing sessions to normalize the experience. This structured approach aims to help Nathaniel become more comfortable with falling, ultimately leading to improved performance and enjoyment in climbing.
Setting Intentions and Accountability
The conversation emphasizes the importance of setting intentions before climbing sessions, helping to hold Nathaniel accountable for following through on practice protocols. By reflecting on personal goals, Nathaniel can remind himself why overcoming fear is vital for his growth in sport climbing. Additionally, incorporating mindfulness techniques like deep breathing could assist in maintaining composure during challenging moments. Such practical strategies encourage a more proactive attitude towards confronting fears and enhancing climbing skills.
Community Support and Vulnerability
The podcast underscores the significance of fostering a supportive community while tackling fears in climbing, encouraging athletes to open up about their experiences. Nathaniel is guided to communicate his needs to his belayer, ensuring that he feels secure and understood while climbing. By expressing vulnerability, climbers can create a more inclusive atmosphere where fear is acknowledged rather than shamed. This shift in mindset not only benefits the individual but also reinforces the idea that fear is a common experience among climbers, promoting a healthier community dynamic.
In this episode I do a full mindset coaching session with Nathaniel Lamont, a Canadian climber whose performance is being affected by his fear of falling above his bolt while lead climbing. This is such a common issue among climbers, so if you or someone you know struggles with this, please listen to this one!
We go through the reasons he’s afraid, we acknowledge and validate those reasons, and I help him figure out ways he can feel more in control of the controllables (who his belayer is, what device they’re using, what climbs he chooses to get on, etc.).
Then we make a plan to work through some of his fear with strategic fall practice. He outlines what he thinks is realistic for him and I give him some clear guidelines for how to implement it in his sessions.
I really hope you enjoy this one – I loved doing this session with Nathaniel and really appreciated his willingness to be honest and vulnerable in front of thousands of people on the podcast.
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Work with Me on Your Fear in Climbing
If you want to work on your fear with me one-on-one, I’m accepting 6 new clients to do 3 months of work (6 sessions) on all things climbing. But we’ll also branch out into other areas of your life you want to work on, including:
Career satisfaction
Relationship issues
Body image
Life design
All things climbing
I’ve been climbing for 27 years, and I feel uniquely qualified to act as both your coach (asking you questions only you know the answers to) AND your mentor (giving you advice) in climbing. I am a Certified Professional Coach and will hold a safe space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings about any topic you want to discuss. We will make goals for each session, and I’ll hold you accountable to carrying out the homework I give you during each session. I’m really looking forward to working with you!