Life Kit Dear LK: I'm happily married but hate our sex life. Should I ask for a divorce?
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Jun 1, 2023 
Emily Nagoski, a renowned sex educator and author of 'Come As You Are,' dives into the complexities of intimacy in loving relationships. She tackles a listener's dilemma about a dwindling sex life despite a happy marriage, emphasizing the importance of open communication. The conversation unveils strategies for discussing intimacy with compassion, combatting societal pressures, and enriching connection beyond just sex. Nagoski highlights that revitalizing intimacy requires ongoing effort and a mindset of gratitude for shared moments.
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Unwanted Sex
- Explore what kind of sex you don't want.
- Then, consider what kind of sex is worth wanting.
Normalizing Dislike
- It's normal to not want sex you dislike.
- People rarely describe desired sex as merely "interesting."
Self-Reflection and Communication
- Reflect on what you want and don't want in sex.
- Discuss these reflections with your partner.
