Episode 144: The Surprising Truth About the Spiritual Life (Hint: It’s Messy)
Sep 19, 2023
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Exploring spirituality and mental well-being, the hosts discuss the messy nature of the spiritual journey, the significance of defense mechanisms in hindering personal growth, the importance of self-awareness and embracing one's uniqueness, and the role of adaptability in spiritual and psychological health.
The spiritual life is messy and complex, challenging preconceived notions and emphasizing the human factor and the richness found in the interior lives of saints.
Resolving defense mechanisms and integrating the different dimensions of our personality are crucial for growth in our spiritual and emotional lives.
Deep dives
Spirituality and Mental Health
Striving for holiness and spiritual perfection while maintaining mental health is a key topic of discussion. The surprising examples of mental health struggles among exemplary saints challenge preconceived notions. The messy and complex nature of the spiritual life is emphasized, highlighting the human factor and the richness found in the interior lives of saints. The aim is to decrease and let God increase within us, embracing the messiness and difficulties of the spiritual journey.
Integrated Responses and Behavioral Patterns
The spiritual life is seen as a sum total of responses made to what is perceived as the inner call of God. The focus is on what individuals do with what they are given, integrating their feelings, thoughts, and actions into coherent patterns. The importance of not solely relying on intentions or knowledge, but rather on the actual implementation of these responses is emphasized. Internal family systems theory is introduced as a way to understand the multiplicity of personalities within individuals and how resolving defense mechanisms can lead to greater integration and adaptability.
Human Act and Uniqueness in Holiness
Holiness is understood as the flourishing of one's unique, unrepeatable self, exemplified in the lives of saints who display diverse personalities and characteristics. Each saint is considered an unrepeatable example of being like Christ in the world. The importance of recognizing and resolving personality defenses is highlighted, allowing the true uniqueness of each individual to come forth. The goal is to facilitate circumstances that nurture the seed of each person's uniqueness, with the integration of grace, leading them to fully blossom.
Healthy Adaptability and the Pursuit of Holiness
The principle of adaptability is presented as a key component of spiritual, psychological, and physical health. Being able to adapt to changing circumstances and aligning one's expectations with reality is crucial for growth and well-being. Examples are given of how individuals navigate unexpected situations and challenges, demonstrating the need for flexibility and adaptability in the pursuit of holiness. The importance of acknowledging and resolving defense mechanisms, while remaining grounded in the pursuit of self-awareness and unity with Christ, is emphasized.
The Surprising Truth About the Spiritual Life (Hint: It’s Messy)
In this episode, Dr. Greg offers a glimpse into why the path to holiness is not linear, how our psychological and spiritual lives impact one another, the importance of self-awareness, and why decreasing our defense mechanisms is key to becoming who God calls us to be.
Discussed in the episode:
How can we strive for spiritual perfection while maintaining a sense of mental health?
Why the path to holiness is not linear or “cookie-cutter” but actually quite messy;
How specific personality patterns and defense mechanisms can hinder us from becoming who God created us to be;
An exploration of the psychological and spiritual dimensions of the life of St. Therese of Lisieux;
The importance of understanding our identity as a way to facilitate our own and others growth in holiness;
Why integrating the different dimensions of our personality is crucial to growing in our spiritual and emotional lives;
The importance of adaptability in becoming a psychologically and spiritually healthy person.
Resources mentioned or relevant:
Past Being Human Episodes on integration, holiness, and Internal Family Systems theory/parts work:
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