The School of Greatness

A MASTERCLASS On Narcissists: How To Spot, Handle & Avoid Them EP 1281

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Jun 17, 2022
Vanessa Van Edwards, a behavioral investigator, dives into spotting narcissistic traits, while psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula provides insights on viewing narcissism through a psychological lens. Psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb discusses the main characteristics of narcissists. The trio explore manipulation cues, the complexity of non-verbal communication, and the psychological impacts of narcissistic relationships. They also emphasize boundaries, self-awareness, and the importance of applying therapy insights for personal growth and healthier connections.
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ADVICE

Spotting Narcissistic Cues

  • Learn to identify subtle cues of narcissism to avoid manipulation.
  • These cues can be nonverbal, verbal, or vocal and often reveal hidden intentions.
INSIGHT

Danger Zone Cues

  • Narcissists may exhibit danger zone cues like lip pursing, distancing, and high blink rate.
  • These cues indicate withholding, discomfort, and nervousness, often associated with lying or manipulation.
ANECDOTE

Elizabeth Holmes's Voice

  • Elizabeth Holmes's artificially deepened voice is an example of a faked competence cue.
  • Her employees noticed her real, higher voice tone when she was drunk, revealing her inauthenticity.
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