Coaching for Leaders

620: How to Respond When You Get Triggered, with Sally Helgesen

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Mar 6, 2023
Sally Helgesen, a leading authority on women’s leadership and bestselling author, shares her insights on overcoming emotional triggers in the workplace. She reveals how our instinct to vent or internalize can hinder effective responses. Sally emphasizes creating positive scripts and assuming goodwill in interactions, which can transform workplace dynamics. She also discusses the 'authenticity trap' and the importance of balancing authenticity with professionalism. Her practical strategies promote healthier communication and conflict resolution for more inclusive environments.
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ADVICE

Managing Triggers

  • Focus on responding effectively to triggers, rather than trying to control or prevent them.
  • Practice habits and behaviors that minimize unnecessarily triggering others.
ANECDOTE

Unheard Ideas

  • A common trigger for women is when their ideas are ignored, only to be praised when repeated by a man.
  • This can lead to feelings of being unseen, unheard, and reactive.
ADVICE

Alternate Scripts

  • Instead of reacting negatively, create an alternate script that explains the situation differently.
  • This can help shift your perspective and create a more positive response.
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