

Surfing Waves of Emotion Through Emotional Regulation
Aug 7, 2025
Tracey DeMaria, an occupational therapist with over 20 years of experience, shares insights on emotional regulation using surfing as a metaphor. She emphasizes that emotions are temporary waves to ride, helping both children and adults visualize and manage feelings more effectively. The conversation highlights the impact of school environments on neurodivergent children and the importance of using nuanced emotional language. Tracey also discusses blending sensory and cognitive strategies for better emotional well-being, and how self-awareness and special interests can aid in emotional control.
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Emotions Move Like Waves
- Emotions flow like ocean waves: they rise, peak, and pass.
- Framing feelings as temporary normalizes intense experience and reduces shame.
Use Neutral Feeling Words
- Use comfortable/uncomfortable instead of good/bad when naming feelings.
- Choose words intentionally because language sends subconscious messages about emotions.
Behaviors Signal The Nervous System
- Reframing behavior as dysregulation shifts focus to the nervous system.
- This perspective honors why actions happen instead of condemning children as faulty.