The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast 1KHO 498: How to Develop Brains That Are Capable of Enjoying Success | Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson, What Do You Say?
Jun 9, 2025
Ned Johnson, co-author of "What Do You Say?" and expert in tutoring anxious children, joins clinical neuropsychologist Dr. William Stixrud to share transformative insights on navigating youth anxiety. They highlight the importance of fostering resilience over mere achievement, advocating for a shift from pressure-based parenting to supportive communication. The duo provides practical phrases to use and encourages parents to focus on emotional well-being and genuine happiness, emphasizing meaningful connections over academic validation. This conversation is a must-listen for any parent or educator!
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Children Mirror Parental Anxiety
- Kids interpret anxious parental behavior as a signal the world is dangerous and they must be afraid.
- Reducing parental anxiety communicates calm, trust, and courage to children.
Normalize Mess And Offer Support
- Tell your child it's okay when things are messy and offer unconditional love instead of panic.
- Offer help if asked and avoid treating setbacks as catastrophic.
Wait Until You're Calm
- Wait until you're calm before addressing difficult issues and give yourself time to think.
- Deliver messages after a pause for better reception and clearer communication.
