In this podcast, the host discusses the paradox of building old habits to achieve new goals. They explore effective goal-setting techniques and managing emotions during the process. They also discuss the discomfort of setting personal goals and the importance of building habits for self-direction. The host shares their contact information and emphasizes the power of short book reviews.
Setting clear and specific goals is crucial for progress and motivation in achieving desired outcomes.
Building flexibility into goal pursuit increases the likelihood of long-term success by allowing alternative pathways to overcome unexpected obstacles.
Deep dives
Building Clarity and Specificity in Goal Setting
Many people abandon their goals and resolutions because they lack clarity and specificity. Setting overarching, undefined goals like 'being healthy' or 'being successful' leaves room for confusion and lack of direction. To ensure success, it is crucial to get specific about what these goals actually mean and quantify them. For instance, defining what being healthy entails in terms of exercise, diet, and mental well-being. By setting clear and specific goals, individuals can better track their progress and stay motivated.
Practicing Flexibility in Goal Pursuit
One common reason for abandoning goals is the lack of flexibility in adapting to unexpected circumstances. Life is unpredictable, and unforeseen events can disrupt progress and routine. To counter this, it is important to build flexibility into goal pursuits. This means allowing alternative pathways to achieve goals and not being too rigid in the approach. For example, if the ideal situation for practicing a habit is not feasible, identifying less ideal but still effective alternatives can help maintain momentum. Building flexibility into goal pursuit increases the likelihood of long-term success.
Understanding and Managing Feelings about Goals
Feelings about goals and goal pursuit can significantly impact motivation and progress. Negative self-talk and feelings of doubt can hinder individuals from pursuing their goals. It is essential to acknowledge and understand these feelings, recognizing that discomfort and uncertainty are normal in the pursuit of new habits or objectives. By reframing negative thoughts and focusing on the discomfort as a sign of growth, individuals can cultivate a more positive mindset. Redefining flexibility as the willingness to do what is necessary to reach desired outcomes can help overcome negative feelings and encourage persistence in goal pursuit.
This episode is a little bit of a paradox...building old habits to achieve new goals? You read that right.
In this solo episode of the WANTcast, we're talking all about how to avoid losing steam on what you've got your heart set on — AND how to build momentum for yourself in a way that's actually SUSTAINABLE. Which is the key word if you want to move forward.
Email Katie at katie@womenagainstnegativetalk.com or DM her on Instagram to let her know what you want to hear about, who you want to hear from, or what you want to learn next season of the WANTcast!
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