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Everyday Better with Leah Smart

Escaping Perfectionism with Professor Thomas Curran

Apr 1, 2025
Thomas Curran, a Professor of Psychology at the London School of Economics and author of The Perfection Trap, dives into the hidden dangers of perfectionism and its rise among young people. He discusses how the pursuit of perfection can lead to anxiety, procrastination, and feelings of isolation. Curran advocates for a 'good enough' approach to life and work, emphasizing the importance of growth and authentic connections. He also critiques the societal pressures that fuel these ideals and shares strategies to embrace imperfection for personal fulfillment.
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  • Perfectionism stems from inadequacy, leading to obsessive behaviors and a negative spiral that hampers personal growth and well-being.
  • Socially prescribed perfectionism amplifies pressures among younger generations, contributing to mental health issues and a conflict between individual achievement and societal expectations.

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Understanding Perfectionism as a Deficit

Perfectionism is rooted in a feeling of inadequacy, where individuals struggle with a fragile sense of self-worth. Those who identify as perfectionists often believe that they need to achieve impossible standards to prove their value. This mindset leads to a constant drive for validation and can manifest as obsessive behaviors and over-generalizing mistakes. Ultimately, as perfectionists strive to cover their perceived shortcomings, they can create a negative spiral that hinders both personal growth and emotional well-being.

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