Moment 153: Happiness Engineer Explains The Exact Formula For Happiness: Mo Gowdat
Mar 15, 2024
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Former Google X executive, Mo Gawdat, reveals the formula for happiness: perception of events minus expectations. Happiness is about control and choice, not specific events. The podcast explores managing expectations, neuroplasticity, and taking control of emotions for a happier life.
Happiness is the result of events meeting or exceeding expectations, not based on specific occurrences.
Recognizing and overcoming distortions in perceptions can lead to maintaining happiness amidst inherent brain design focused on negativity.
Deep dives
Happiness Equation: Events vs. Expectations
Happiness is not based on specific events but on the comparison between events and expectations. For example, nature's chaos makes us happy because it aligns with our expectation of nature. Happiness is defined as events meeting or exceeding expectations, leading to calmness and peace.
Six Grand Illusions and Seven Blind Spots
The six grand illusions, such as control and fear, impact happiness by distorting expectations. Understanding that control is an illusion can prevent disappointments when events do not meet expectations. The seven blind spots, inherent brain design focused on negativity, emphasize recognizing and overcoming exaggerations in perceptions to maintain happiness.
Happiness as a Choice and Radical Acceptance
Happiness is portrayed as a choice involving taking personal responsibility for emotional responses. Radical acceptance, the Jedi master level of happiness, involves acknowledging emotions, questioning their truth, and committing to improving despite uncontrollable circumstances. This approach stems from a business mindset of logic, personal responsibility, and problem-solving, leading to success in both personal and professional aspects of life.
In this moment, former chief business officer for Google X and bestselling author, Mo Gawdat, discusses the happiness equation. According to Mo, we don’t realise that happiness is actually very predictable, so much so that it can actually be put into a mathematical equation. Mo says the formula for happiness is: your perception of the events of your life minus your expectations of how life should be. This means, that it’s not specific events that cause happiness, but it is the comparison between the event and the expectation you have in your mind of how your life should be going. As a result happiness is all about perception, which means you have the ability to control your happiness and it becomes a choice that you decide.