A New Way of Being

Trauma: Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk

Jul 31, 2023
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INSIGHT

Attachment Shapes Trauma Not Just Events

  • Trauma imprints the body and brain, often from unmet attachment, not just dramatic events.
  • Dr Bessel van der Kolk says childhood lack of being seen shapes identity and biology long-term.
INSIGHT

Early Experience Hardwires Worldview

  • The limbic system builds a model of the world from early experience and hardwires expectations.
  • Rejection in childhood leads to enduring beliefs like "nobody cares" that bias later perception.
INSIGHT

Social Safety Can Trump Single Events

  • Breach of attachment systems is often more damaging than isolated traumatic incidents.
  • Feeling embedded in a safe social structure matters more than the single event.
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