Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live

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Jul 21, 2025
Join psychiatrist Paul Browde, who shares his inspiring journey from growing up queer under apartheid to finding healing through storytelling and pleasure as transformative tools. His thoughts on reclaiming aliveness and confronting stigma are powerful. Later, New York Times bestselling author Nedra Glover Tawwab dives into the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, emphasizing that they foster connection rather than separation. Her compassionate insights offer a roadmap for cultivating healthier dynamics, especially in today's emotionally challenging climate.
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INSIGHT

I-Thou Relationship Realization

  • Martin Buber's I-thou relationship signifies being fully present and connected to life.
  • Paul experienced this presence deeply upon his HIV diagnosis, facing life with awe and urgency.
ADVICE

Three-Minute Game for Connection

  • Try the three-minute game by asking and giving simple pleasures to a partner.
  • This builds presence, vulnerability, consent, and reconnects couples through erotic play.
INSIGHT

Lessons from AIDS Epidemic

  • The AIDS epidemic taught that stigma kills and silence isolates people literally.
  • Truth-telling, touch, and pleasure are acts of healing and reclaiming the body.
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