The Mark Groves Podcast

#462: How People-Pleasing Is Killing Your Relationships with Dr. Robert Glover

Jul 7, 2025
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Robert Glover
Dr. Robert Glover, a therapist and author of "No More Mr. Nice Guy," explores how the 'Nice Guy' syndrome hinders genuine intimacy and personal strength. He delves into the emotional conditioning that keeps men from their true selves and the hidden costs of people-pleasing. Glover shares insights on setting boundaries, developing self-worth, and nurturing healthy connections. Their discussion also emphasizes the importance of authenticity in relationships and the need to reclaim masculinity while fostering deeper emotional bonds.
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ANECDOTE

Wife Challenges 'Nice Guy' Behavior

  • Robert Glover's wife challenged his "nice guy" behavior, labeling it passive-aggressive and untrustworthy.
  • His journey of self-improvement led him to develop his book, No More Mr. Nice Guy, over several years.
ADVICE

Clarity and Leadership Attract

  • Be clear about what you offer and expect early in dating to establish healthy dynamics.
  • Leadership with transparency and purpose attracts respect and authentic connection.
ADVICE

Use Safe Spaces to Heal

  • Find safe people and share your hidden fears and pain to begin healing.
  • Engage in therapy, coaching, or men's groups to safely reveal vulnerability.
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