You Are Not So Smart

206 - Narcissism

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May 16, 2021
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INSIGHT

True Nature of Narcissism

  • Narcissism is not excessive self-love but a mask hiding deep insecurity and self-loathing.
  • Vulnerable narcissism is the true form, while grandiose narcissism aligns closer to psychopathy.
ANECDOTE

Don Draper as Narcissism Example

  • Don Draper from Mad Men perfectly exemplifies a vulnerable narcissist's struggle with identity.
  • He hides his true self behind a confident mask and is terrified people will see the insecurity beneath.
INSIGHT

Narcissist's Maladaptive Flexing

  • Narcissists flex by self-elevating in social interactions despite negative social feedback.
  • This maladaptive cycle worsens insecurity but persists due to inability to modulate based on social cues.
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