

TikTok Is Taking the “Let Them Theory” Too Far
Apr 12, 2025
Explore the intriguing rise of Mel Robbins' 'let them theory' on TikTok, and how it promotes emotional well-being while posing risks to genuine relationships. Discover the pitfalls of pursuing self-improvement in a world increasingly dominated by individualism, leading to a loneliness epidemic among Gen Z. The speakers discuss the balance between letting others make their choices and the necessity of tough conversations in fostering meaningful connections. Can this theory provide solace, or is it simply another trend with hidden dangers?
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Top Girl Canon Events
- Kate Lindsay dislikes the "Top girl canon events" trend on TikTok.
- It lists relatable female experiences, but some are too specific or triggering.
Let Them Theory Intro
- Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay discuss the "let them theory" by Mel Robbins.
- It suggests letting go of situations you cannot change for emotional peace.
Mel Robbins Background
- Mel Robbins, author and podcast host, was a criminal defense attorney and gained fame with her "five-second rule" TED Talk.
- This rule suggests acting on impulses within five seconds or discarding them.