ICYMI

Kate Lindsay and Candice Lim parse through the annoying practice of logging in and downloading apps. From hiking in the woods to brushing our teeth, it seems like we can’t do anything online these days without being prompted to make an account or download an app. Why do tech companies pressure us to log in all the time? And if we log out, why do they shame us into downloading apps for fast food places and refrigerators? But first, what’s the “Gen-Z Stare” and is this simply TikTok creating another intergenerational conflict?  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The discussion dives into the turbulent relationship between Love Island and social media, emphasizing how online platforms shape viewer interactions and influence contestants' mental health. Tragic stories of public shaming and social media backlash frame the conversation, highlighting the need for better support for reality TV participants. The hosts analyze the inconsistency in the show's handling of controversies and the responsibilities of producers to protect contestants. They ponder the balance between entertainment and social responsibility in the reality TV landscape.

Laura Pitcher, a senior writer for Dazed, explores the fascinating trend of people turning to ChatGPT as their therapist. The discussion dives into the allure of using AI for emotional support and the potential consequences, including loneliness and diminished interpersonal skills. Pitcher shares insights on how users are outsourcing their emotions to ChatGPT and the implications of crafting personal messages through AI. The conversation also raises critical questions about data privacy and the balance between technology and genuine human connection.

Tony Ho Tran, a senior tech editor at Slate specializing in technology and its societal impact, joins the discussion to unpack Meta’s recent AI lawsuit victory. The conversation dives into the potential dangers of AI tools like ChatGPT on creativity and online expression. Tony shares insights on the urgent need for regulatory measures as AI expands its reach, often without users' awareness. They also discuss the evolving nature of data ownership and privacy concerns in the digital age and the ongoing legal battles that could reshape our understanding of copyright.

A woman in her 50s goes viral on TikTok after sharing her journey of getting a facelift and chin implant in Guadalajara. The discussion reveals how influencers like Kylie Jenner have also opened up about their cosmetic surgeries, sparking conversations around beauty standards. The hosts explore the societal implications of this growing transparency and how it empowers individuals to embrace their transformations. They reflect on how these candid discussions are reshaping perceptions of aging and body image in 2025.

Ingrid Nilsen, known as the iconic beauty lifestyle YouTuber MissGlamorazzi, reflects on her groundbreaking coming out video from 2015 that gained over 18 million views. She discusses the emotional turmoil she faced before uploading and the mixed reactions that shaped her journey. Delving into how coming out videos transformed LGBTQ+ representation on YouTube, Nilsen shares nostalgic memories and emphasizes the importance of community support during such personal revelations. The conversation highlights the evolution of acceptance and authenticity in the digital age.

Kelsey Weekman, a Yahoo News senior entertainment reporter specializing in internet culture, shares insights from this year's VidCon. She discusses YouTube's stronghold despite TikTok's popularity, highlighting the emotional highlights of VidCon's 20th anniversary. The conversation dives into the cultural clash between the two platforms, how YouTube remains favored by adults, and the nostalgic impact of early creators like the Vlogbrothers. They also touch on the dynamic interactions within the social media space and playful ideas for engaging panels.

The hosts kick off with catchy summer sounds, reflecting on how our attention spans have shrunk. They dive into the rise and fall of Partiful, the trendy event invite app facing backlash over its founders' ties to Palantir, known for controversial contracts with government agencies. The discussion raises questions about privacy in digital event planning and the future of invite platforms. Listeners are invited to share their coming-out stories for an upcoming Pride segment, emphasizing the importance of personal narratives in the digital age.

Join Nadira Goffe, a Slate staff writer known for her insightful coverage of the Diddy trial, as she dives into the clash between traditional media and new creators. Discover how YouTubers and streamers are reshaping courtroom reporting, often eclipsing classic outlets with their engaging narratives. Goffe discusses the ethical dilemmas and sensationalism emerging in true crime culture. The conversation also touches on the intense media rivalry in high-profile trials and the evolving landscape of legal journalism.

In this engaging conversation, Jason Parham, a Senior Writer at Wired and producer of 'Black Twitter: A People’s History,' dives into the intriguing world of Quan Millz, an international bestselling author known for his vibrant urban narratives. They explore Millz's unique storytelling and his viral rise to fame on TikTok. The discussion reveals the impact of niche literature and online culture on his readership, along with questions about authenticity and the duality of internet fame. Expect lively insights and compelling perspectives on modern authorship!