Strangers In A Tangled Wilderness Pocket Guide to Conflict Mediation by Casandra
Sep 5, 2025
Casandra, a conflict mediation expert and creator of the 'Pocket Guide to Conflict Mediation', shares her insights on navigating disputes in radical communities. She highlights the importance of non-violent communication and establishing safe spaces for dialogue. The conversation delves into effective strategies for mediation, emphasizing active listening and the dynamics between mediators and participants. Casandra also explores the role of restorative justice and tailored approaches for resolving conflicts, particularly in diverse group settings.
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When To Seek Mediation
- If direct communication fails, offer mediation only when both people consent and are willing to communicate in good faith.
- Avoid mediation if participants refuse to engage or one party clearly does not consent to the process.
What Mediators Should (And Shouldn't) Do
- As a mediator, create a safe container, model active listening, and prepare to administrate details so participants can focus on feelings.
- Avoid judging, taking sides, or acting as a therapist; clarify boundaries before starting.
Neutrality Is About Power, Not Illusion
- Neutrality as absolute objectivity is unrealistic; mediators should avoid having a stake in the conflict outcome instead of pretending to be unbiased gods.
- True mediator neutrality means noticing and balancing power dynamics, not erasing relationships or care.
