
Sounds True: Insights at the Edge “Showing Up For Each Other” | Tami Simon & Tara Brach on the Intersection of Spirituality & Therapy
Oct 23, 2025
Tara Brach, a clinical psychologist and meditation teacher, discusses the fusion of spirituality and therapy with Tami Simon. They explore how therapists can meet individuals in pain and the importance of openness to suffering. Tara introduces the RAIN method for processing pain and emphasizes the significance of loving awareness. The duo examines how emotional integration promotes spiritual growth, and share insights on grief, radical acceptance, and the power of connection. Their conversation highlights the collective nature of suffering and the need for compassionate presence in healing.
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Tender Presence Holds Pain
- To meet someone in pain, cultivate a tender, embodied resonance and enough spacious presence to avoid being overwhelmed.
- Balance open-hearted empathy with mindful containment to hold a safe field for the other.
Use RAIN To Process Pain
- Practice RAIN: Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture, then note the after-effects to metabolize pain.
- Use curiosity and compassionate nurturing to separate your awareness from identifying with painful waves.
Plan Emergency Supports For Overwhelm
- Prearrange emergency supports for overwhelm, such as reaching for another's comfort or invoking a holding presence.
- Identify quick pathways (a friend, pet, prayer, memory) that restore safety when RAIN isn't accessible.






