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The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast

Episode 187: Self-Differentiation Is Self-Giving

Aug 8, 2022
13:40
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Explore the concept of self-differentiation and other centeredness in non-anxious leadership. Discover the correlation between employee care and effective leadership. Learn the benefits of being other centered in relationships and how it leads to better customer care. Prioritize employees to create a happier and more successful workplace.
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Quick takeaways

  • Other-centeredness is sacrificing for the sake of others because one values emotional connection and interdependence, leading to positive traits like forgiveness, kindness, empathy, and cooperation.
  • Self-differentiation involves balancing intimacy and autonomy, helping leaders maintain emotional connection without losing their sense of self, leading to better coping with stress and lower levels of negative variables like neuroticism and low self-differentiation.

Deep dives

The Importance of Other-Centeredness

Research shows that altruism, specifically other-centeredness, has psychological benefits such as improving well-being, health, and increasing lifespan. Other-centeredness is sacrificing for the sake of others because one values emotional connection and interdependence. It is different from unmitigated communion, where the giver's happiness is entangled with the receiver's happiness. Unmitigated communion can lead to emotional instability, stress, and low self-differentiation. On the other hand, other-centeredness is associated with positive traits like forgiveness, kindness, empathy, and cooperation. People who prioritize benefiting others and value positive relationships tend to be more satisfied with their own lives.

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