

189 [Replay] Can my attachment style do non-monogamy?
Feb 1, 2025
Explore the fascinating world of attachment theory and its impact on non-monogamous relationships. Discover how rigid labels like anxious or avoidant can limit our understanding of personal dynamics. Emphasize the significance of context and communication in fostering emotional connections. Challenge misconceptions while advocating for a fluid interpretation of attachment styles. Dive into the journey of personal growth and the importance of self-awareness in cultivating healthier relational patterns.
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Attachment Theory in Relationships
- Attachment theory helps us understand relational trauma and partners' behaviors.
- Consider if you're building an attachment-based relationship, not all relationships are.
Don't Let Labels Limit You
- Don't let attachment style labels limit your relationship choices.
- Focus on your willingness to put effort into the relationship.
Differing Levels of Expertise
- Joli has a PhD and extensive experience studying relationships and attachment theory.
- Ken acknowledges having less familiarity with these concepts.