Eating Pussy with Gusto: Axe’s Sex Stories

Jan 9, 2026

Axe dives into his journey from a sexless marriage to discovering polyamory and kink. He shares insights on the impact of abstinence-only education and the challenges of navigating desire. With humor, he recounts losing his virginity at 30 and the joy that followed. Axe explores the dynamics of power exchange, the importance of consent, and his interest in chastity and strap-on play. He gives a peek into building a poly/kink library and his hopes for a more connected, sex-positive life. Plus, he candidly discusses fears around group sex and the complexities of modern relationships.

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ANECDOTE

Late First Sex Became A Turning Point

Axe was married four years without having sex and lost his virginity at age 30 in 2020.
That first sexual experience felt like a profound gift and marked a major life turning point for him.

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ADVICE

Make Condoms Familiar And Fit

Keep condoms handy and discuss brands, fit, and shape before sex to avoid erection loss.
Try masturbating with a condom to build arousal with barrier use.

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INSIGHT

Medical Cause Behind Low Libido

A medical prolactinoma suppressed Axe's testosterone and caused erectile issues during his marriage.
Treating the tumor restored his hormones and revived his libido and sexual function.

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Axe's current sex life and identity

00:31 • 2min

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What 'sexy' and 'power' mean to Axe

02:18 • 2min

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Safer sex practices and condom challenges

04:25 • 1min

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Erectile issues and medical diagnosis

05:35 • 2min

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First memories of sex and abstinence-only school

07:36 • 2min

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Early pornography and masturbation discoveries

09:29 • 3min

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Anal play, lube and teenage shame

12:04 • 4min

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Turning off desire in Christian college

15:39 • 4min

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Marriage without chemistry

Losing virginity at 30 and gratitude

21:37 • 7min

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Serial dating, relationship 'shoulds', and patterns

28:44 • 7min

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Desire for traditional family and poly reimagining

36:03 • 2min

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Building a poly/kink library at work

38:30 • 60sec

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Entering polyamory and learning limits

39:30 • 3min

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Sexless marriage support group insight

42:35 • 5min

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Kink gear and bondage play

47:26 • 2min

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Chastity, denial, and sissy fantasies

49:25 • 4min

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Strap-on, oral and anal play preferences

53:22 • 3min

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Group sex curiosity and threesome fears

56:19 • 3min

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Finding dominant partners and scene access

59:12 • 4min

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Hopes: kink scene, teaching partners, and sex positivity

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⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 His sexless four-year marriage

04:06 Condoms, safer sex, and learning how his body responds

07:11 Growing up with abstinence-only education and evangelical guilt

10:10 Discovering porn, masturbation, and early anal play

15:04 Turning off desire in Christian college and finding religion again on his own terms

19:12 Marriage without chemistry, erectile struggles, and medical answers

22:42 Why explicit verbal consent is necessary for his arousal

27:17 Losing his virginity at 30 and his first grateful, joyful hookup

30:18 Serial dating, “shoulds”, and realizing why monogamy didn’t work for him

33:00 Wanting kids, exploring mid-century masculinity, and reimagining family through polyamory

35:25 Building a kinky, poly book collection at the public library

37:23 Poly saturation, multiple partners, and finding balance

39:17 Sexless marriage support groups and why everyone deserves great sex

42:32 Restraints, ball gags, collars, and exploring dominance

44:08 Chastity cages, control, and denial fantasies

49:07 Strap-ons, anal play, and loving power exchange

52:19 Threesomes, group sex fears, and learning how to receive pleasure

58:32 His hopes for a future full of connection, kink, and awesome sex

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