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Mentioned in 19 episodes

The Ethical Slut

A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures

Book • 1997

by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton

This book navigates the infinite possibilities of open relationships, dispelling myths and providing skills necessary for maintaining a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle.

It covers self-reflection, honest communication, practicing safe sex, and raising a family, among other topics.

The authors encourage readers to define relationships on their own terms and discuss strategies for dealing with jealousy, conflict resolution, and other challenges in non-monogamous relationships.

Mentioned by

Dedeker Winston

Sarah Edmondson

Justin Lehmiller

Dr. Diane Mueller

Mentioned in 19 episodes

Mentioned by

Susan Bratton

as the source of the equation: safety and variety equals desire.

Orgasm Queen: Do This For 20 Minutes Before Having Sex & Have Sex With Them Like When You First Met! I Never Orgasmed Until He Tried This!

Mentioned by

Susan Bratton

when explaining a lesson she learned about trust, safety, variety, and novelty in relationships.

333. Getting Better At Sex - Part One

Referenced by

Jace Lindgren

, mentioning the 'poor baby' exercise which is described in the book.

542 - Is Emotional Intelligence the Key to Getting Out of Our Own Way?

Mentioned by

Liz Wolfe

as a book that all the poly people read.

Rob Henderson: Why Elites Still Worship Socialism

Mentioned by Alex as one of the books she read to be an ethical and empathetic person in her poly journey.

68. Having Three DADT Partners with Alex & Skyler

Recommandé par

Oussama Ammar

comme un livre qui a été une révélation pour lui.

🔴 OFF THE REC : Oussama Ammar

Mentioned by

Dedeker Winston

as one of the books she read early in her non-monogamy journey.

543 - My Metamour Refuses to Meet Me: Listener Q&A

Mentioned by Emily as one of the literatures that provided frameworks around the polyamorous movement.

Polyamory: The History You Never Thought to Ask

Mentioned by Dr.

Joli Hamilton

during the podcast as a resource for understanding jealousy.

Retroactive Jealousy & Studying Jealousy ft. Dr Joli Hamilton

Mentioned by Paul as an eye-opening book that helped him find an ethical framework for non-monogamy.

Ep 54 Our First Real Swinger Resort Vacation

Mentioned by

Dedeker Winston

as a classic book about polyamory.

146 - Fear of Missing Out

Mentioned by

Stephanie Winn

as required reading in her marriage and family therapy class.

135. Even Worse Than We Thought: The Woke Takeover of Counseling Psych Grad School | Ryan Rogers

Mentioned by

Sarah Edmondson

as a book read by a group in Vancouver that were dabbling in polyamory.

Empire of Orgasm: Ellen Huet on the Different Strokes of OneTaste (Part 2)

Recommended by a caller as containing a helpful section on jealousy.

Savage Lovecast Episode 976

Mentioned by

Shahidha Bari

as co-author of "The Ethical Slut", discussing sex positivity and feminism.

The Sunday Debate: Has Sex Positivity Harmed Feminism?

Mentioned by

Justin Lehmiller

as a book that has had a pretty big influence in the area of polyamory.

Episode 234: The Evolution of Polyamory in America

Mentioned by

Marianne Power

as a book she loved and adored, which is surprising for a Catholic schoolgirl like her.

The One Where I Talk To Author & Journalist, Marianne Power

Mentioned by

Aidan Wharton

, referencing the idea of reclaiming the word slut with a positive connotation.

"F*cking My Friends" w/ Aidan Wharton

Mentioned by

Dr. Diane Mueller

as one of the classic books she reread when exploring non-monogamy.

The Secrets to Getting Your Sex Drive Back: With My Libido Doc

Mentioned by Elswyth as one of the writings she pored over in preparation for the hypnotherapy session.

4.94 Cuckold Conditioning Hypnotherapy

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