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Mentioned in 11 episodes
The Ethical Slut
A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures
Book • 1997
This book navigates the infinite possibilities of open relationships, dispelling myths and providing skills necessary for maintaining a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle.
It covers self-reflection, honest communication, practicing safe sex, and raising a family, among other topics.
The authors encourage readers to define relationships on their own terms and discuss strategies for dealing with jealousy, conflict resolution, and other challenges in non-monogamous relationships.
It covers self-reflection, honest communication, practicing safe sex, and raising a family, among other topics.
The authors encourage readers to define relationships on their own terms and discuss strategies for dealing with jealousy, conflict resolution, and other challenges in non-monogamous relationships.
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Mentioned in 11 episodes
Mentioned by 

as the source of the equation: safety and variety equals desire.


Susan Bratton

1,125 snips
Orgasm Queen: Do This For 20 Minutes Before Having Sex & Have Sex With Them Like When You First Met! I Never Orgasmed Until He Tried This!
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as a book that all the poly people read.

Liz Wolfe

35 snips
Rob Henderson: Why Elites Still Worship Socialism
Referenced by 

, mentioning the 'poor baby' exercise which is described in the book.


Jace Lindgren

22 snips
542 - Is Emotional Intelligence the Key to Getting Out of Our Own Way?
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im Zusammenhang mit Polyamorie und ethischer Nicht-Monogamie.

Lars Weisbrod

Sind wir nicht alle ein bisschen konservativ?
Mentioned by Dr. 

during the podcast as a resource for understanding jealousy.


Joli Hamilton

Retroactive Jealousy & Studying Jealousy ft. Dr Joli Hamilton
Im Podcast erwähnt als umfassende Anleitung zu Polyamorie, offenen Beziehungen und sexueller Freiheit.

Ist Monogamie nur was für Faule?
Mentioned by 

as a classic book about polyamory.


Dedeker Winston

146 - Fear of Missing Out
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as required reading in her marriage and family therapy class.

Stephanie Winn

135. Even Worse Than We Thought: The Woke Takeover of Counseling Psych Grad School | Ryan Rogers
Recommended by a caller as containing a helpful section on jealousy.

Savage Lovecast Episode 976
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as co-author of "The Ethical Slut", discussing sex positivity and feminism.

Shahidha Bari

The Sunday Debate: Has Sex Positivity Harmed Feminism?
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as a book that has had a pretty big influence in the area of polyamory.


Justin Lehmiller

Episode 234: The Evolution of Polyamory in America
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as a resource she read while researching swinging.

Kiley George

Ep 374 - Kiley (The Pineapple Express Podcast)
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as one of the books she read early in her non-monogamy journey.


Dedeker Winston

543 - My Metamour Refuses to Meet Me: Listener Q&A
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as being the AI version of the ethically non-monogamous guide.

Simone Collins

The Lives Of Those Who Date AIs (Are They On To Something?)
Mentioned by 

when referencing a conversation with the author about changes she’s seen since her book came out.


Jace Lindgren

137 - Intersectionality and Polyamorous Communities (with therapist Ruby Bouie Johnson)
Mentioned by 

as one of the most widely read books on polyamory.


Emily Matlack

132 - The Ethical Slut 20th Anniversary with Janet Hardy
Mentioned by Paul as an eye-opening book that helped him find an ethical framework for non-monogamy.

Ep 54 Our First Real Swinger Resort Vacation
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as a book that describes the ethical considerations of polyamorous relationships.

Molly Winter

Wealthy Couple Decide To Try “Open Marriage” And EVERYTHING Goes Horribly Wrong