The Imperfects

Lael Stone - Creating Emotionally Intelligent Humans

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Jun 12, 2022
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INSIGHT

Out-of-Balance Behavior

  • Children often act out when they're "out of balance" emotionally.
  • This "out-of-balance" state stems from accumulated tensions and unexpressed feelings.
ANECDOTE

Benji's Day

  • Lael Stone shares an example of a child named Benji experiencing several small stresses throughout the day.
  • These accumulate and lead to a meltdown later, triggered by a seemingly minor incident (a bitten cookie).
ADVICE

Handling Meltdowns

  • Respond to children's meltdowns with connection and playfulness.
  • Alternatively, hold a calm, firm limit and allow them to express their feelings.
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