Dave Hollis ON: How To Stop Listening To People’s Opinions & Writing Your Own Story

Apr 13, 2020

Dave Hollis, author and former Disney executive, shares his inspiring journey from corporate life to the world of self-development. He discusses the freedom found in leaving security behind and how taking risks leads to personal growth. The conversation dives into overcoming self-imposed barriers and the importance of vulnerability in relationships. Hollis emphasizes the role of authenticity and communication in navigating challenges, and reveals insights from his new book, 'Get Out Of Your Own Way,' urging listeners to embrace their unique paths to fulfillment.

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Skepticism and Transformation

Dave Hollis was initially skeptical of personal development, viewing it as unnecessary for those not "broken."
His wife, Rachel Hollis, embraced personal development to address anxiety and other challenges, leading to a growing divide between them.

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Growth and Stagnation Divide

Rachel Hollis's personal growth contrasted with Dave Hollis's stagnation, creating marital tension.
A pivotal conversation about their diverging paths and potential future spurred Dave Hollis to begin his own growth journey.

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From Therapy to Transformation

Dave's initial foray into personal development involved therapy, which helped him understand the origins of his beliefs.
Despite his skepticism, he attended a personal development conference and had a transformative experience.

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Get Out of Your Own Way

A Skeptic's Guide to Growth and Fulfillment

Dave Hollis

In 'Get Out of Your Own Way', Dave Hollis shares his journey from skepticism to advocacy for personal growth. He tackles topics like his struggles with alcohol and insecurities as a dad, helping readers drop negative ideas and live authentically. The book provides encouragement and practical advice for those seeking a more fulfilling life.

Radical Candor

Be a Kick-ass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity

Kim Scott

Radical Candor by Kim Scott offers a practical approach to management by emphasizing the importance of caring personally and challenging directly. The book argues that effective managers must find a balance between being empathetic and providing clear, honest feedback. Scott draws from her experiences at Google and Apple to provide actionable lessons on building strong relationships, giving feedback, and creating a collaborative work environment. The book introduces the concept of 'radical candor' as the sweet spot between obnoxious aggression and ruinous empathy, and provides tools and strategies for managers to implement this approach in their daily work[1][2][5].

The Power of Habit

Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business

Charles Duhigg

In this book, Charles Duhigg explores the science of habit formation and change. He explains the 'habit loop' consisting of a cue, a routine, and a reward, and how understanding this loop can help in changing bad habits or forming good ones. The book includes numerous examples from various fields, such as how Procter & Gamble successfully marketed Febreze, how Alcoa transformed its business by focusing on safety, and how individuals like Olympic swimmer Michael Phelps and civil-rights hero Martin Luther King, Jr. benefited from specific habits. Duhigg argues that by harnessing this science, individuals and organizations can transform their lives and businesses[2][4][5].

Girl, Wash Your Face

Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be

Rachel Hollis

Girl, Wash Your Face is a self-help book that combines memoir, motivational tips, Bible quotations, and common-sense advice. The book is structured around 20 lies that the author, Rachel Hollis, once believed about herself and how she overcame them. Each chapter focuses on a specific lie, such as 'I'll start tomorrow' or 'I am defined by my weight,' and provides personal anecdotes and practical strategies for overcoming these obstacles. The book emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility, self-reliance, and living with passion and purpose. It also includes elements of Hollis's own life experiences, from her family background to her career and personal relationships, making it a relatable and motivational read for many women[1][3][5].