CM 273: Kasley Killam on the Art and Science of Connection
Aug 26, 2024
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Kasley Killam, a public health expert and author, advocates for the recognition of social health as a crucial component of well-being. She discusses the loneliness epidemic and the importance of meaningful relationships, proposing practical strategies to enhance social connections, including the innovative 531 guideline. The conversation also explores the dual role of technology in social health and shares inspiring stories, highlighting how nurturing relationships can lead to happier, healthier lives.
Social health, defined as the quality of our relationships, plays a vital role in overall well-being alongside mental and physical health.
Proactive strategies like nurturing meaningful connections and engaging in community activities are essential for enhancing social health and combating loneliness.
Deep dives
Understanding Social Health
Social health is defined as the dimension of overall health derived from relationships and a sense of community, playing an essential role similar to physical and mental health. Research indicates that a higher quality and quantity of social connections can significantly enhance longevity and reduce the risk of various diseases such as heart disease and depression. By nurturing social relationships through interactions with loved ones, volunteering, and establishing connections in the community, individuals can improve not just their social well-being but their physical and mental health as well. This interconnectedness highlights the need for proactive measures to cultivate social health distinctly, as the methods for enhancing it can differ from those for physical or mental health.
Quality vs. Quantity of Connections
The importance of the quality of social connections is emphasized over mere socializing, underscoring the notion that meaningful relationships yield better outcomes for social health. Engaging with individuals who bring positivity and respect into one's life is more beneficial than spending time with a larger number of acquaintances who may not offer the same supportive environment. Introversion and extroversion play a role in how individuals engage socially, but the focus should remain on nurturing the most meaningful relationships rather than fitting into a mold of constant social interaction. This perspective encourages individuals to prioritize deeper connections that fulfill emotional and social needs, rather than frivolous engagements that do not enrich their lives.
Proactive Approach to Loneliness
These discussions expand the concept of loneliness beyond its effects, advocating for a proactive approach to enhancing social health even among those who do not feel lonely. Research indicates a significant portion of the population regularly experiences loneliness, prompting health officials to address this as a public health concern. The focus should not solely be on combating loneliness but also on fostering strong social health in various settings, including workplaces and local communities. By recognizing that one can possess a fulfilling social life even while feeling isolated in certain areas, individuals are encouraged to actively seek out activities and connections that promote a stronger sense of community and belonging.
Strengthening Social Muscles
Various strategies are recommended for enhancing social health, which can be likened to a fitness regimen for one's social life. For instance, it's suggested to 'stretch' social muscles by making new connections, whereas 'resting' involves nurturing existing relationships rather than actively seeking new ones. 'Toning' these muscles focuses on deepening conversations and prioritizing quality moments with loved ones, while 'flexing' entails appreciating and maintaining those valuable connections for the long term. Through these actionable steps, individuals can effectively enhance their social health and experience the numerous benefits that arise from rich interpersonal interactions.
It’s become common knowledge that we need to prioritize our physical and mental health. In fact we’re encouraged to commit to regular exercise and good nutrition, and to engage with mental health professionals as part of a healthy lifestyle.
And if public health experts like Kasley Killam have their way, social health will become just as important. It’s why she wrote the book, The Art and Science of Connection: Why Social Health is the Missing Key to Living Longer, Healthier, and Happier.
Kasley’s book is the proactive solution to today’s loneliness epidemic. It’s also a research-backed argument for why social health needs to be on equal footing with mental and physical health.
Episode Links
Shifting the Focus from Loneliness to Social Health
What is Social Health? The Little-Known Idea that Could Make All the Difference
The Mental Health Industry is Booming. Next up? Social Health Innovation
Interview with Malissa Clark
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