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Psychology Researcher: Why Always Being Good Can Be Incredibly Bad for You | Dr. Sunita Sah

Feb 3, 2025
Dr. Sunita Sah, author of "Defy" and a leading expert in psychology at Cornell University, challenges the idea that always being good is beneficial. She discusses the importance of defiance as a means to honor personal values against societal pressures. Sah highlights the psychological patterns that lead to compliance and the necessity of asserting boundaries. She also outlines a five-stage process of defiance that promotes personal growth, urging listeners to recognize their discomfort and navigate their own moral compass.
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  • Cultural conditioning to comply can hinder authentic living, leading individuals to prioritize others' expectations over their own values.
  • Defiance is reframed as a positive alignment with personal values, encouraging action against the pressure to conform in various life aspects.

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The Impact of Compliance on Decision Making

The podcast highlights the concerning trend where healthcare professionals, particularly nurses, often refrain from speaking up about errors due to fear of non-compliance. Studies revealed that about 90% of healthcare workers felt uncomfortable addressing mistakes, which could lead to critical consequences in patient care. This issue is echoed in other fields, such as aviation, where crew members hesitate to challenge superiors during life-threatening situations. Such scenarios underline the significant risks of conflating compliance with morality and the urgent need for frameworks that empower individuals to voice their concerns.

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