Josh Shipp, a youth expert and former at-risk foster child, shares his transformative journey into youth advocacy. He delves into decoding teenagers' behavior, shedding light on the importance of consistency in parenting. Josh discusses feelings of inadequacy many parents face, advocating for a coaching approach as kids become more independent. He also emphasizes equipping young adults with essential life skills for college and fostering communication and responsibility in children through quality time and affirmations.
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Josh Shipp's Foster Care Journey
Josh Shipp shares his story of being abandoned as a baby and entering the foster care system.
He developed a pattern of getting kicked out of foster homes until he met the Wiedemeyers.
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Consistent Encouragement and Consequences
The key to effective parenting is consistent encouragement and consistent consequences.
This framework provides structure, love, and reinforces children's ownership of mistakes.
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Turning Point After Jail
At 17, Josh went to jail, but his foster parents bailed him out and reaffirmed their love and belief in him.
This was a turning point where he decided to take responsibility for his life.
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