EP 9 - 'Unblending' from Parts in IFS (Internal Family System Therapy)
Aug 30, 2023
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Licensed psychotherapist Jen discusses the 'unblending' process in IFS therapy, explaining ways to reveal your authentic self by separating from 'parts'. Topics include blending, unblending, and an example of unblending for clarity.
Unblending in IFS therapy helps individuals regain connection to their authentic, compassionate self.
Blending in IFS therapy occurs when individuals fuse with certain parts, impacting behaviors and relationships.
Deep dives
Understanding Parts in IFS Therapy
In internal family systems therapy, individuals have various sub-personalities known as parts, originating from past experiences. These parts can have conflicting desires, such as loving a job while also wanting to travel. The 'self' in IFS is compassionate, courageous, and connected, representing the core of individuals. The therapy aims for the system to be self-led, where all parts are connected to the self.
Concept of Blending in IFS Therapy
Blending in IFS therapy occurs when individuals are fused with certain parts, either believing those parts represent their core self or when triggered by past experiences. This blending can lead to behaviors like binge eating or being overly critical. When blended, individuals lose sight of their true self, becoming enveloped by specific sub-personalities, impacting relationships and behaviors.
The Unblending Process in IFS Therapy
Unblending in IFS therapy involves separating from blended parts to regain connection to the self. By acknowledging and addressing critical or triggering parts separately, individuals can access self-compassion and understanding. This process helps in taking care of different parts with self-compassion and healing, ultimately empowering individuals to become their own healers.
In this episode, we explore the ‘unblending’ process in IFS and hear an example from Jen’s personal system. Jen is a licensed psychotherapist, IFS practitioner and energetic healer.
This episode covers:
A brief review of parts and Self
The two ways that ‘blending’ can happen
What ‘unblending’ is
How to ‘unblend’ to reveal more of your authentic, compassionate Self
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