

Healing Attachment Wounds with Psychological Flexibility — Dr. Steven Hayes
Aug 7, 2025
Dr. Steven Hayes, a prominent psychologist and co-developer of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, dives deep into the crucial relationship between attachment, psychological flexibility, and personal healing. He discusses the importance of social context in forming secure attachments and emphasizes the need for viewing individuals as unique rather than averages. Listeners will appreciate his insights on self-compassion and the transformative power of embracing personal struggles. He also introduces the PsychFlex app, a tool for enhancing emotional awareness and personal growth.
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Psychological Flexibility Defined
- Psychological flexibility is the set of skills that bring the most benefit across many areas of life.
- It involves openness, present-moment awareness, and purposeful behavior aligned with meaning and values.
Accept Your History
- Accept your full history willingly to become whole and move forward with purpose.
- Avoid trying to fix or deny your past; instead, show up with compassion and use your wisdom.
Social Scaling of Psychological Flexibility
- The six core psychological flexibility processes extend socially, promoting empathy, cognitive openness, and shared values.
- These social extensions directly support secure attachment and healthier relationships in various group contexts.