From Jerk To Peace & Healing Practitioner w/ Kardin Rabin
Dec 9, 2024
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Kardin Rabin, a nervous system medicine practitioner and trauma expert, shares his incredible journey from a troubled youth to a dedicated healer. He delves into his transformation, discussing his past struggles with bullying and emotional pain. Kardin highlights his unique 'Emotional Cold Plunge' exercise and its positive impact. He reflects on the importance of healing personal attachments and the power of authenticity in recovery. Through personal stories, he inspires listeners to embrace their own journeys towards peace and healing.
Karden Rabin introduces the 'Emotional Cold Plunge' as a transformative exercise facilitating emotional healing through direct confrontation of feelings.
His journey from a neglectful bully to a compassionate healer was sparked by confronting his behavior and seeking knowledge in self-help.
The profound grief from losing his mother redirected Karden's life towards healing, enhancing his understanding of human suffering and emotional work.
Deep dives
The Emotional Cold Plunge
The concept of the emotional cold plunge is introduced as a transformative exercise aimed at emotional healing and self-discovery. This practice encourages individuals to confront their feelings directly, akin to the physical action of jumping into cold water, which stimulates clarity and resilience. Engaging in this exercise has shown benefits for many, as it emphasizes the importance of experiencing rather than avoiding emotional discomfort. The practice fosters a deeper understanding of one's emotions, ultimately promoting healing and personal growth.
Carden's Journey from Pain to Purpose
Carden Rabin shares his transformative journey from being a neglectful and hurtful person to becoming a compassionate healer. He reflects on his childhood struggles, including severe asthma and neglect, which shaped his early persona as a bully. A pivotal moment came when a friend confronted him about his behavior, prompting him to seek self-improvement through literature and self-help strategies. This turning point ignited a lifelong passion for understanding the human experience and the principles of healing.
Navigating the Landscape of Grief and Healing
Grief is a crucial theme in Carden's narrative, as he discusses the impact of his mother's death on his life trajectory. The loss catalyzed a profound realization about his career choices and life direction, guiding him toward interests in healing and emotional work. He mentions that the experience brought to light suppressed emotions and opened new avenues for personal and professional growth. Embracing grief enabled him to develop a deeper connection with himself and others while enhancing his understanding of human suffering.
The Influence of Learning and Experience
Carden emphasizes the importance of continuous learning throughout his journey, particularly in the realms of trauma and somatic practices. After grappling with chronic back pain, he encountered John Sarno's work, which shifted his perspective on pain's psychological and emotional roots. This newfound understanding led him to explore the correlations between trauma, emotional health, and physical well-being. Each experience and piece of knowledge he gained equipped him to better support others in their healing journeys.
The Drive to Help Others
Throughout the episode, Carden expresses his fundamental motivation: to help as many people as possible through holistic healing. His journey from personal pain to professional ambition demonstrates how personal experiences can fuel one’s drive to make a positive impact. By sharing his insights and developing resources for others, he aims to create a ripple effect of healing and empowerment. Carden's dedication to understanding trauma and its effects on the body reinforces his commitment to facilitating growth and recovery in others.
On September 9, 2024 we published a show titled, Your Nervous System Is Controlling You & How To Master It. My guests were Jennifer Mann and Karden Rabin and my muse was their new book, The Secret Language of The Body. In our long conversation, Karden brought up his “Emotional Cold Plunge” exercise and I was incredibly intrigued. He gave me access to his community at somiainternational.com/ which I joined and went through the exercise. I ended up engaging more and just felt really attracted to Kardin’s guidance and spirit and found myself wondering how he had ended up where he is today. HIs bio says, Karden is a nervous system medicine practitioner and an expert in the fields of trauma
and psychophysiological disorders. Over the last fifteen years he has combined principles of
bodywork, brain retraining, and somatic trauma therapies and helped thousands of clients across the globe heal from chronic pain and illness. Karden is the Co-Founder of SOMIA and a
regular contributor to Bessel Van Der Kolk’s Trauma Research Foundation and has led
programming for The Wounded Warrior Project and Starbucks. But what you are about to hear is that Karden had severe asthma and almost died. He was very neglected as a child and often in tears, bored, and alone in his pain. From this, up to age 19, Karden says he became, an asshole. A bully. He was mean and used cleverness and criticism like a sword.Being a poser was identity and he worked to get tablescraps of validation from cool kids. He was good at making fun of people to get a laugh. But then…something happened. Something that drove him to become obsessed with uncovering the physics of what drives people and discovering the laws that no one is immune to. Today his ambition is to help as many people as possible. I bring you this story because I think you will resonate and it will help you see and understand yourself better, and how you can take your pain and heal it as you help relieve people of theirs. Find him at @KardenRabin
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