#270 Dr Nicole LePera – How To Be The Love You Seek
Sep 11, 2023
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Dr. Nicole LePera, New York Times Bestselling author and holistic psychologist, talks about trauma bonds, conditioned thinking, nervous system soothing, and her new book, How To Be The Love You Seek.
Reconnecting with one's authentic self and exploring deeper desires leads to a greater sense of fulfillment and achievement.
Creating a safe space within the body through self-soothing techniques allows for emotional navigation and authentic choices.
Deep dives
Shifting the Premise of the Podcast
The podcast host discusses how they shifted the premise of their podcast to explore how people who desire greater success and fulfillment in life can make that vision a reality. The focus is on understanding the insights and realizations that led these individuals to pursue their goals and step towards a higher level of achievement.
Becoming Disconnected from the Life Created
The guest shares their personal journey of feeling disconnected and unfulfilled despite achieving what they thought were their desired goals. They highlight the importance of reconnecting with their authentic self and exploring deeper wants, needs, and desires. By making choices aligned with their true self, they were able to live in alignment, leading to a greater sense of fulfillment and achievement.
Creating a Safe Space within the Body
The guest emphasizes the significance of creating a safe space within the body to reconnect with oneself. They highlight the importance of paying attention to bodily sensations, regulating the nervous system, and practicing self-soothing techniques. By creating a foundational sense of safety and regulation within the body, it becomes possible to navigate emotional experiences and make choices rooted in authenticity.
Empowering Relationships through Self-Awareness
The guest discusses empowering relationships through self-awareness and personal responsibility. They highlight the importance of focusing on oneself rather than blaming or trying to change others. By prioritizing self-care, regulating emotions, and setting boundaries, individuals can cultivate safer environments in relationships, fostering authentic love and connection.
Dr. Nicole LePera is a New York Times Bestselling author and holistic psychologist. In this episode, we discuss trauma bonds, conditioned thinking, nervous system soothing, and her new book, How To Be The Love You Seek.
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