Order of Man

The Pareto Principle, Overcoming Despair, and Why the Basics Always Win | ASK ME ANYTHING

Oct 8, 2025
Jay Jairdullo, a seasoned coach in leadership and emotional regulation, joins Ryan Michler to tackle pressing questions from the community. They discuss practical strategies for overcoming complacency after success and personal growth during marital struggles. The duo emphasizes the 80/20 principle for better health choices and breaks down how consistency trumps talent. They also explore essential frameworks for emotional management and share insights on cultivating self-worth to combat depression. It's a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone seeking improvement and purpose.
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ADVICE

Anchor Goals To A Vision

  • Revisit your vision before chasing the next goal to avoid endless goalpost moving.
  • Use a battle plan (vision, objectives, tactics, after-action review) to choose meaningful next objectives.
ANECDOTE

Vision Guided Ryan's Financial Choices

  • Ryan shares how hitting income goals led him to reassess goals through a vision of family presence and flexibility.
  • He uses a physical battle plan every day to align objectives to that evolving vision.
ADVICE

Become The Project

  • Make yourself the project: improve mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, and by contribution.
  • Do these changes for yourself, not to manipulate your partner, and accept the outcome may still be out of your control.
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