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The Stoic Handbook by Jon Brooks

3 Pillars of Skilful Communication Cheatsheet

Jul 14, 2024
Explore the intersection of Stoic philosophy and communication. Discover how cognitive distortions shape our interactions, and learn to enhance relationships with a structured four-step model. Gain insights into empathy, assertiveness, and respect to transform your communication dynamics. Dive into timeless wisdom, realizing that true happiness lies in the present and in the quality of our thoughts. Uncover the power of your mind to reshape your reality and create meaningful connections.
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Quick takeaways

  • Understanding one's role in relationship issues can empower individuals to transform conflicts by recognizing their contributions and reactions.
  • Effective communication, emphasized through empathy and Nonviolent Communication, is essential for fostering meaningful connections and improving emotional well-being.

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Understanding the CIT Model

The Cognitive Interpersonal Therapy (CIT) model emphasizes that individuals often provoke and maintain their relationship problems, largely due to painful self-examination. Acknowledging one's role in these conflicts is difficult, as many deny their contributions to relationship issues. However, recognizing this can empower individuals to take control and transform their troubled relationships. The concepts derived from Stoic philosophy align with this model, reinforcing the idea that it is not circumstances but reactions that shape emotional well-being.

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