Tips on lasting longer in bed, society's expectations on sex duration, controlling ejaculation, avoiding numbing techniques, the relationship between sexual positions and duration, and the importance of breath work for enhancing sexual performance.
Learning to control ejaculation through breathwork and mindfulness techniques.
Importance of personalized approaches and communication in enhancing sexual experiences.
Deep dives
Understanding Premature Ejaculation and Performance Anxiety
Men often struggle with ejaculating too soon and facing performance anxiety due to wanting to please their partners and have a satisfying sex life. A sex and relationship coach, Caitlin V, works with men on premature ejaculation, helping them gain control over their bodies by implementing simple techniques. She emphasizes the importance of how men conduct self-stimulation, as it lays the foundation for their sexual experiences with partners. By experimenting and personalizing approaches, she helps men build unshakable sexual confidence and overcome performance issues.
The Impact of Mindfulness and Breathwork on Lasting Longer
Caitlin V highlights the significance of breathwork and mindfulness in extending sexual stamina. Teaching men to breathe deeply and focus on their breath during sexual activities can instantly improve ejaculatory control. By breathing correctly, men activate a different nervous system associated with sexual pleasure, promoting longer lasting experiences. Mindful breathing not only enhances physical and emotional states but also connects individuals with their partners on a deeper level.
Redefining the Notion of Longer Sex for Better Pleasure
Caitlin V challenges the belief that longer sex equates to better quality or satisfaction. She argues that time on the clock does not determine the greatness of sex. While lasting longer can provide access to different experiences and tools, true pleasure and connection arise from factors beyond duration. By encouraging partners to communicate, connect intimately, and explore creative avenues, sexual experiences can become more fulfilling and enjoyable.
Accessing Support and Resources for Sexual Wellness
Caitlin V offers an online video course, 'Come When You Want,' designed to help men enhance ejaculatory control and sexual confidence. The course provides step-by-step guidance, allowing individuals to learn at their own pace and access valuable techniques from home. By addressing premature ejaculation and performance issues, individuals can work towards long-term sexual satisfaction and improved self-confidence. Personalized approaches and mindful practices can transform individuals' sexual experiences and overall well-being.
Welcome to episode 137 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Caitlin V to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about what men can do to last longer in bed, the underlying issues of premature ejaculation and techniques that men can learn to help with this issue.
Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.
She works with clients all over the world on ending premature ejaculation, preventing erectile dysfunction, and developing unshakable sexual confidence. Combining personal experience with evidence-based science in her coaching, Caitlin’s mission is to create a sex and pleasure-positive world
In this episode, you will hear:
What can men do to last longer in bed?
Simple and effective techniques men can use
Understanding how your style of masturbation will affect your sex life
How society has the wrong expectation on the duration of sex
Learning to control your ejaculation, if only by a small amount
How many men don’t know treatment is available
Numbing techniques – picturing undesirable things whilst having sex
Why numbing techniques don’t offer the best solution
Why longer duration of sex doesn’t translate to better sex
The relationship between sexual positions and duration