Sexology

Welcome to Episode 435 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Tia Lynn, a seasoned intimacy coach and host of the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast, who speaks to me about navigating threesomes, one of the most common fantasies among couples - and how to approach them with intention, clarity, and care.In our conversation, we explore the difference between fantasy and desire, and why not every fantasy needs to be acted upon. Tia offers practical advice on how couples can decide whether a threesome is right for them, including how to assess trust, emotional safety, and shared curiosity. We also talk about the importance of open dialogue, emotional preparation, and creating safe, judgment-free zones to explore these conversations.Tia Lynn is a TEDX speaker, host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast and a Sex & Intimacy coach. She loves to help high-achieving women tap into their feminine energy, reignite their sexy confidence to have the best sex of their life. Her methods are known to increase self-confidence, income, and better sex!In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding the Fantasy vs. Reality of Threesomes·      How to Know If You and Your Partner Are Ready·      Importance of Trust, Communication, and Consent·      Common Emotional Pitfalls to Avoid·      Tips for Bringing Up the Topic with Your Partner·      Where and How to Meet a Potential Third·      Screening for Safety and Emotional Compatibility·      Setting Boundaries and Managing Jealousy·      Initiating Intimacy Without Awkwardness·      Why Aftercare Is Just as Important as the Act Itself Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Their diverse lineup includes delay sprays, lubricants, vibrators, and more - all carefully curated to support sexual wellness and intimacy. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.  Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 434 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Rain DeGrey, who speaks to me about the world of prostate massage and milking - what it is, how it works, and the deeper cultural and psychological barriers we often encounter around anal play, particularly for men.In our conversation, Rain breaks down the differences (and similarities) between prostate massage and milking, highlighting how both are often misunderstood. We explore how performance anxiety, shame, and cultural taboos can shape our sexual experiences - and how embracing pleasure as a valid goal can be deeply healing.Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Prostate Massage vs. Milking·      Why Performance Pressure Reduces Pleasure·      The Myth of Proven Health Benefits·      Pleasure as a Valid, Healing Goal·      How Anxiety Impacts Sexual Function·      Practical Safety Tips for Anal Play·      The Link Between Shame and Patriarchal Norms·      Prostate Play Without Penetration·      Navigating Prostate Stimulation with Toys·      The Value of Sex Education and Ongoing Learning Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Their diverse lineup includes delay sprays, lubricants, vibrators, and more - all carefully curated to support sexual wellness and intimacy. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 433 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Anna Lee, the CEO and co-founder of Lioness, who speaks to me about the intersection of pleasure, science, and innovation - and how we can redefine the way we understand and experience orgasms.In this episode, Anna shares her fascinating journey from working in big tech to creating Lioness, a company rooted in data-driven pleasure and sexual wellness. We dive into how her cultural upbringing shaped her early relationship with sexuality and how she turned a personal healing journey into a revolutionary tool that helps people explore their bodies. Anna Lee is the co-founder and CEO of Lioness, the startup that built the world’s first and only smart vibrator that helps improves sexual pleasure through biofeedback orgasm data and research. Anna was previously a mechanical engineer at Amazon, launching the Amazon Dash Button and the Kindle Voyage. She was most recently named one of Newsweek’s 10 Innovators Disrupting Healthcare as well as Forbes 30 Under 30. Realizing the underrepresentation of women engineers in sextech and the lack of research, Anna has made it a mission to expand understanding and research in sexual pleasure.In this episode, you will hear:·      Anna Lee’s Journey From Tech to Pleasure Innovation·      How Lioness Tracks and Visualizes Orgasm Patterns·      The Role of Engineering in Designing for Female Pleasure·      The Cultural Taboo Around Female Masturbation·      Cannabis and Caffeine as Orgasm Enhancers·      The Science Behind Pelvic Floor Contractions·      Data Insights on Age and Orgasm Strength·      Addressing the Orgasm Gap with Research and Tech·      The Importance of Curiosity in Sexual Wellness·      Empowerment Through Pleasure and Knowledge Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Their diverse lineup includes delay sprays, lubricants, vibrators, and more - all carefully curated to support sexual wellness and intimacy. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 432 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by William Moore, who speaks to me about his incredible journey from LGBTQ+ advocacy to pioneering innovations in male enhancement procedures.In this powerful episode, William shares his story of growing up in rural Alabama and eventually becoming a national LGBTQ+ rights advocate, culminating in a landmark U.S. Supreme Court case that changed anti-discrimination laws forever. He also takes us into the world of male enhancement, where he developed  PhalloFILL - a minimally invasive girth enhancement technique that has transformed the lives of countless men, both physically and emotionally.William Moore is the founder of the Dallas-based biohacking clinic AdvancedYOU and the visionary Founder of PhalloFILL®, the leading network for non-surgical penile girth enhancement. After launching in 2021, PhalloFILL now spans nearly 30 U.S. markets, Mexico City, and Montreal, solidifying its status as the largest and most accessible treatment for penile girth enhancement. Beyond the clinics, Moore is the President of the Texas Med Spa Association, advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and healthcare equality. In this episode, you will hear:·      William’s Journey From Rural Alabama to Advocacy·      LGBTQ+ Rights Victory at the Supreme Court·      The Birth of  PhalloFILL Male Enhancement Procedure·      Why Girth Matters More Than Length in Pleasure·      Risks of Unsafe Filler Practices in Enhancement·      The Role of Confidence in Sexual and Social Life·      Scientific Innovation Behind the PhalloSleeve Device·      Real-Life Impact on Relationships and Self-Esteem·      Training Physicians Nationwide for Safe Procedures·      Breaking Taboos Around Male Body ConversationsExplore FirmTechUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 431 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Susan Bratton as we explore the fascinating world of sexual biohacking—how we can extend our sexual vitality and pleasure throughout our lives. Susan is an expert in sexual wellness and longevity, and she shares valuable insights on how we can enhance our "sex span" alongside our health span.A lifelong entrepreneur, Susan is CEO of two companies. The 20, founded in 2019, is a supplement company specializing in libido support for sexual vitality. Based on the 80/20 rule, which states that 80% of your results are due to 20% of your efforts - if only you know what 20% to choose. The 20’s blood flow supplement, libido vitamins, and sexual energy bars FLOW and DESIRE make the “what to choose” dilemma a no-brainer by providing the just-right balance of vitamins and botanicals to deliver noticeable results.Through Personal Life Media, founded in 2006, Susan has authored and published 34 books and programs, including Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed®️ Video Collection, and her Amazon #1 International Bestseller, Sexual Soulmates: The Six Essentials for Connected Sex. Over 1,250,000 copies of her books have been enjoyed by lovers worldwide.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Sexual Biohacking and Its Benefits·      How Blood Flow Affects Arousal and Pleasure·      The Role of Hormones in Sexual Wellness·      Regenerative Therapies for Sexual Health·      Tools and Techniques for Female Rejuvenation·      Male Enhancement Methods and Their Effectiveness·      The Science Behind the "Use It or Lose It" Concept·      Psychological Factors That Impact Desire·      Practical Tips for Boosting Libido and Function Free Sex Bucket ListUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 430 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lynn Lohide, a professional body piercer and needle play educator. Lynn speaks to me about the fascinating world of needle play - what it is, how it's practiced safely, and the deeper emotional and psychological connections people have with it.In our conversation, Lynn shares how their journey into professional piercing led them to discover the erotic and ritualistic aspects of needle play. We explore the ways in which controlled pain can serve as a tool for self-discovery, healing, and even reclaiming one's body. Lynn has been professionally piercing since 2011, facilitating body suspensions since 2013, and doing play piercings since 2013. They have a passion for everything hook and piercing related, and since their first piercing they have been immensely drawn to the craft.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding What Needle Play Is and Its Various Forms·      The Overlap Between Professional Piercing and Kink Exploration·      How Needle Play Can Be Used for Healing and Self-Empowerment·      The Role of Trust, Consent, and Safety in Needle Play·      The Psychological and Emotional Impact of Engaging in This Practice·      The Historical Ties Between Needle Play and Queer Leather Culture·      Common Myths and Misconceptions About Needles in BDSM·      How Individuals Can Explore Needle Play for the First Time·      The Importance of Education and Safe Practices in Needle Play·      Resources for Learning More About This Fascinating Kink Free Sex Bucket ListUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete Bailey Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 429 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Ariel Anderssen, who shares her incredible journey from growing up in a strict religious community to becoming a BDSM model and advocate. We explore the origins of kink, whether it’s something we’re born with or develop over time, along with the role of trust, communication, and appreciation in BDSM relationships.Ariel opens up about her early fascination with power dynamics, how she discovered the BDSM community, and how modeling helped her embrace her sexuality. We also discuss the impact of growing up in a restrictive religious environment, the misconceptions surrounding BDSM, and why trust and mutual respect are at the core of these dynamics. Ariel Anderssen is a BDSM model and author with a lifetime's interest in submission and masochism. She released her first book, playing to lose, in 2023, where she charts her journey from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a shame-free, widely recognised BDSM performer. She's currently writing her second book.In this episode, you will hear:·      How Early Fantasies Can Shape Adult Sexuality·      Nature vs. Nurture: Are We Born Kinky?·      Ariel’s Transition from a Religious Upbringing to the BDSM Scene·      The Role of Trust and Communication in BDSM Dynamics·      How Nude Modeling Helped Ariel Heal Her Relationship with Her Body·      Breaking Free from Shame and Embracing Kink·      Misconceptions About BDSM in Popular Media·      Tips for Dominants to Create a More Fulfilling Experience for Their Partners·      The Importance of Aftercare and Emotional Connection in BDSM·      Where to Find Resources for Exploring Kink Safely Make Her Go Wild In The Bedroom Guide Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 428 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandria Saunders, who speaks to me about the transformative practice of Yoni massage within Tantra. We explore how this sacred technique can deepen intimacy, heal past trauma, and help individuals reconnect with their bodies in a more profound and holistic way.In this episode, Dr. Alexandria shares how her journey into Tantra began through yoga and how she seamlessly integrates spiritual and sexual wellness into her work. We discuss the misconceptions surrounding Tantra, emphasizing that it’s more than just sexual positions - it's a philosophy that celebrates the body and pleasure as pathways to deeper awareness.Dr. Alexandria Saunders is a sexologist, tantra coach, and pleasure activist dedicated to cultivating spaces of safety. With a doctorate in sexology and countless clinical and spiritual trainings and certifications, Alexandria allows her wisdom to guide her toward offering the medicine of her heart, which is to help others heal trauma and reintegrate their sexuality so they can wholly embody pleasure. As a medicine woman, Alexandria walks with people as they discover the depths of bliss hidden behind their scars. Healing trauma, reintegrating sexuality, and embodying pleasure are all guideposts of her work. In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Yoni Massage And Its Role In Tantra·      The Connection Between Sexuality, Spirituality, And Healing·      How Trauma And Cultural Conditioning Affect Our Relationship With Pleasure·      Practical Steps To Incorporate Yoni Massage Into Solo And Partnered Practices·      The Importance Of Presence, Breathwork, And Energy Awareness·      How To Navigate Vulnerability And Emotional Releases During The Practice·      Addressing Body Shame And Cultivating Self-Acceptance·      Why Removing Goal-Oriented Thinking Enhances The Experience·      Tips For Givers On Maintaining Presence And Intuition In Touch Get Your Free Stress Reduction Course Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 427 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Catherine Auman, a marriage and family therapist with extensive expertise in Tantra. We look into the fascinating world of Tantra and its role in deepening intimacy, exploring how couples can move beyond routine interactions to cultivate more sensual and spiritual connections.In this episode, Catherine shares her personal journey into Tantra, how she integrates it into couples therapy, and why it’s a transformative tool for fostering intimacy. We discuss the importance of embodiment, the challenge of transitioning from daily responsibilities into a sensual mindset, and practical beginner-friendly meditation techniques.Catherine Auman, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) is a spiritual psychotherapist and the Director of The Transpersonal Center in Los Angeles, California. She has advanced training in traditional psychology as well as the wisdom traditions. Catherine lived for a year at the Osho ashram in India – a full-time immersion in tantra and meditation – and she has studied and practiced tantra, love, sex, intimacy, and seduction with numerous teachers.In this episode, you will hear:●      Catherine’s Journey into Tantra and Marriage & Family Therapy●      Understanding Tantra as a Path to Deepened Intimacy●      The Role of Embodiment in Sensual Awareness●      How Modern Culture Disconnects Us from Our Bodies●      Simple Tantric Practices to Bring Consciousness into the Body●      The Importance of Tuning Into Sensations Rather Than Focusing on Orgasm●      Yab-Yum: A Powerful Position for Heart-Centered Connection●      The Concept of Holding Space Without Performance Anxiety●      How Rituals Can Transform Intimate Experiences Get Your Free Stress Reduction Course Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 426 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Pauline Ryeland, an expert in Tantra, intimacy coaching, and libido work. Pauline shares her deep knowledge of Tantra as a way of life, explaining how we can use practices like eye gazing and breathwork to strengthen emotional and physical intimacy with our partners.Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer ® has been working as an Intimacy, Sex & Libido Coach & Educator for over 13 years.  She is certified as a Somatic Sexological Body Worker, Tantra Teacher & Facilitator and a Master Trainer & Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and a Havening Techniques™ Trauma Specialist.Pauline recently wrote a book titled, Empowered Conscious Sexuality - From Prude to Pleasure and works as a Transformational Coach and Leader, having worked with thousands of individuals and couples around challenges they may be experiencing with intimacy, sex, libido, relationships and everything in between. She is passionate about educating people in the bedroom and leading people to living their best lives.In this episode, you will hear:●      The Power Of Eye Gazing In Creating Deeper Connection●      How Breathwork Can Enhance Intimacy And Arousal●      The Undressing Ceremony As A Sensual Prelude To Connection●      Overcoming The Initial Awkwardness Of Tantric Practices●      Using Tantric Breathing To Transition From Stress To Sensuality●      Rituals For Awakening Sexual Energy And Desire●      How To Address Low Libido Through Mindset And Practice●      Breaking Out Of Routine To Reignite Passion In Relationships●      Healing Emotional Blocks That Impact Sexual Intimacy Get Your Free Stress Reduction CourseUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy