Thomas Curran, Professor of Psychology studying perfectionism, discusses the psychology of perfectionism, its negative effects on mental health, embracing imperfections and the concept of 'good enough', overcoming perfectionism and embracing vulnerability, and expressing gratitude and embracing authenticity.
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Quick takeaways
Perfectionism can lead to negative outcomes like anxiety, low self-esteem, and depression.
Perfectionism is not correlated with success and can lead to burnout and self-sabotage.
Social media promotes comparison and exacerbates perfectionistic tendencies, leading to heightened anxiety and negative self-judgments.
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Perfectionism and its negative effects on mental health
Perfectionistic people believe they are not good enough, leading to negative outcomes like anxiety, low self-esteem, and even depression. They constantly strive for approval and validation from others, setting high standards that are often unattainable. This constant striving leads to a cycle of anxiety, fear of failure, and self-criticism.
The paradox of perfectionism and productivity
While perfectionists may work hard, there is no correlation between perfectionism and success. In fact, perfectionism can be counterproductive, leading to burnout, rigidity, and a fear of failure. Perfectionists often withhold effort to avoid exposing their vulnerabilities, leading to self-sabotage and missed opportunities for growth and achievement.
Challenging perfectionism in social media
Social media exacerbates perfectionistic tendencies by promoting an airbrushed image of flawless lifestyles. Perfectionists tend to compare themselves to others on social media, leading to negative self-judgments and heightened anxiety. Developing awareness of the pitfalls of social comparison and using social media in healthier ways can help counteract these negative effects.
The rise of perfectionism as a hidden epidemic
Perfectionism, especially socially prescribed perfectionism, is on the rise in our society. The expectation to be perfect is pervasive and leads to increased levels of stress, anxiety, and low self-esteem. Recognizing this hidden epidemic is the first step towards addressing and mitigating its negative impact.
Practical strategies to overcome perfectionism
To overcome perfectionism, it is important to cultivate self-compassion, focus on the process rather than the outcome, and challenge distorted thinking patterns. Setting realistic goals, breaking tasks into smaller chunks, and practicing self-care can also help in overcoming perfectionistic tendencies. Embracing the idea that 'good enough' is okay and finding joy in the journey rather than obsessing over the end result can lead to greater fulfillment and contentment.
Professor of Psychology Thomas Curran knows a thing or two about the human mind. He's dedicated a large part of his career to the study of perfectionism and its effect on our lives. In his landmark study, the BBC saw fit to hail him as “the first to compare perfectionism across generations”. Curran's TED Talk on perfectionism has been viewed by millions of people around the world, and his research has been featured in a range of publications from the Harvard Business Review to New Scientist. In this podcast, the subject matter expert and I discuss the psychology of perfectionism, what it means for our lives and health, and how to overcome this debilitating state of mind.
Highlights from our conversation:
Understanding what perfectionism is and why it exists
The root feelings of perfectionism and their sources
The self-perpetuating effects of perfectionism on our lives
Embracing the concept of 'good enough' in an imperfect world
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