The Therapy Edit One Thing with That Darn Chat on dividing unseen labour at Christmas
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Dec 2, 2022 In this conversation, Laura Danger, a life coach and Fair Play facilitator, tackles the hidden burdens of holiday responsibilities. She highlights the importance of recognizing domestic labor as genuine work, emphasizing equitable distribution within family partnerships. Laura offers practical tips, like planning early and prioritizing joy over obligatory traditions. She discusses the Fair Play method, encouraging open dialogues to prevent resentment. This insightful discussion is a must-listen for anyone wanting to redefine holiday labor dynamics!
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Ask What Makes Holidays Special
- Do have explicit conversations with your partner about what makes the holidays special to you.
- Ask early and ask specifically so your partner can notice and plan thoughtful gestures.
Traditions Need Intentional Ownership
- Traditions persist by assumption, not magic; someone must anticipate the needs.
- Making invisible tasks visible prevents resentment and clarifies who owns what.
Spotting A Stressed Holiday Parent
- Anna recounts seeing a stressed mother on Christmas Eve who couldn't wait for it to be over.
- The story highlights how unseen labour can make holidays miserable for caregivers.
