Decoding the Gurus Brené Brown: Matt and Chris courageously embrace their vulnerability
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Fear Turned into Rage
- Brené Brown shares an anecdote about a coach telling someone not to be a "pussy".
- This taught the person to turn fear into rage, which negatively impacted his relationships.
Vulnerability is Not Weakness
- Brené Brown challenges the traditional view of vulnerability as weakness.
- She defines vulnerability as emotional risk, exposure, and uncertainty, and sees it as a measure of courage.
Vulnerability and Belonging
- Brené Brown's research suggests those who embrace vulnerability are more likely to experience true belonging.
- They are willing to be authentic and take risks in relationships.
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Introduction
00:00 • 2min
I'm Not a Stob, and I Don't Believe in Chaking People's Buyers
01:32 • 2min
I'm Feeling Good About Myself, or Feeling Healthy
03:14 • 2min
You Make Other People Feel Better?
04:57 • 2min
The Gors, the Wine Stenks
06:39 • 2min
Economists Wear Naiveness
08:13 • 2min
A New Episode of the Antivax Road Show
09:48 • 2min
Are You Dealing With Hypnotized People?
11:19 • 2min
I Don't Need to Imagine That They're Hypnotized, Zambes!
12:56 • 2min
Is Heller's Issue Mostly Heller?
14:38 • 2min
We Don't Know. We're Just Interested in the Truth
16:23 • 2min
Is Liable to Put You in Contact?
18:03 • 2min
The Secret of Masks and Contrarianism
20:25 • 2min
We Learned This at Evergreen, Right?
22:10 • 2min
The Anti Vax Strain, if They Were to Do Sowis, I'm Sure They Wouldn't.
24:22 • 2min
The Power of Vulnerability
26:01 • 2min
TED Talks With Brene Brown and Lowis Haws
27:44 • 2min
The Man in the Arena
29:25 • 2min
Is There a Category of Criticism?
31:01 • 2min
Don't Listen to Your Worst Critics
33:03 • 2min
Self Help
34:59 • 2min
The Cultural Value That Man Be Emotionally Unavailable
36:39 • 2min
The Roll of Shame
38:30 • 2min
The Difference Between Shame and Guilt
40:17 • 3min
The Role of Emotions in Relationships
43:16 • 4min
The Circumplex Model of Effect
46:53 • 2min
How to React to Fear and Rejection in a Positive Way
48:49 • 2min
I'm a Tenager, I'll Divulge My Own Von Ribeld in the Showerfo, Thats Pretty Glad.
50:24 • 2min
The Power of Vulnerability
52:14 • 2min
A Tautology?
53:50 • 2min
Courage and Bravery
55:31 • 2min
The Truth About Courage and Bravery
57:03 • 2min
I Think It's Excellent Advice
59:21 • 2min
You Don't Want to Get Better.
01:01:03 • 2min
Is It a Good Idea to Extol American Values?
01:02:36 • 2min
The Self Help Ovre
01:04:46 • 2min
Having a Bingalow Noh Yakis
01:06:39 • 2min
The Opposite of Belonging Is Fitting In
01:08:18 • 2min
Is There That Much a Puzzle?
01:09:48 • 2min
What Makes You Complicated?
01:11:19 • 1min
Youavn Wat E Rat It Side of Enigma
01:12:49 • 2min
How Much Time Do You Have?
01:14:30 • 2min
Thete Attornis, I Just Wanto Have a Good Time.
01:16:05 • 2min
Brernet Browns Is a Logical Positivist
01:17:46 • 1min
I Belong to Me
01:19:10 • 2min
The Snake Is Eating Itself
01:20:59 • 1min
The Big Secret About TED
01:22:17 • 2min
I'm Struggling to Say Much About Bene
01:23:56 • 2min
What I Learned From Studying Vulnerability
01:25:38 • 2min
Aphorisms, Ifor Wind Your Neck
01:27:21 • 2min
The Sports Team That Was Vulnerable
01:28:53 • 2min
Is It a Good Show?
01:30:27 • 2min
I've Never Thought About Research Like This, but Am.
01:32:00 • 2min
What Is Research?
01:34:01 • 1min
Thousands of Pieces of Data
01:35:29 • 2min
What's the Hat's Theme?
01:37:02 • 2min
Is It a Revolutionary Theory?
01:38:41 • 2min
How to Qualitatively Control the Quality of Social Work?
01:40:26 • 2min
Is There No Value in John Peterson?
01:42:34 • 2min
Parenting
01:44:47 • 2min
Parenting Isn't a Practice
01:46:29 • 2min
You Have to Walk Your Head Part
01:48:04 • 1min
Good Advice to Children Is to Follow Your Dreams
01:49:33 • 3min
I'm a Tribe of One. We're the People We Are.
01:52:12 • 1min
The Pursuit of a Career in Scientific Research
01:53:40 • 2min
Run in Your Own Niche Podcast
01:55:51 • 2min
Gordan Peterson's Self Help Is Good
01:57:46 • 3min
The Conspiracy Hypotheses for This Week
02:00:36 • 2min
I've Got This Ina Adetic Memory.
02:02:17 • 2min
Brain Gus and We Have No Better or Worse to the Others, but Differently More Special
02:04:22 • 2min
Is This Yourself Helping?
02:06:00 • 2min
We're Coming for You, Am, Wel, What?
02:07:32 • 3min
Brené Brown is an American professor, lecturer, author, storyteller researcher, and podcast host. She's made it her life's work to help people rise strong, brave the wilderness, and dare to lead - all through overcoming shame and embracing their own vulnerability.
So naturally Chris and Matt - being the emotionally unavailable, culturally stunted and cynical gits that they are - bemoan all this positivity and do their level best to try and drag her down to their bitter and petty level.
Can you get the secret to self-actualisation in a TED talk? Or is it more a sequence of inspirational quote memes strung together? Or are these things one and the same?
Perhaps Professor Brown is honing in on universal psychological truths. Or alternatively, she might be an unwitting expression of American hyper-individualism and self-obsessed culture.
Well, you're gonna get the Irish and Australian take on that.
Thanksgiving is obviously the perfect time for the hosts to tell their US listeners that American culture sucks and that kids shouldn't follow their dreams but prepare to be cogs in the machine.
No, no, they don't do that. Well... not entirely.
Well, what do they say? What is there take? You'll have to tune in to find out!
Links
- The power of vulnerability (TED talk)
- Listening to shame (TED talk)
- 'If you want to heal yourself, WATCH THIS!' Brené Brown & Lewis Howes on 'The School of Greatness'
- Eric Weinstein: How Not to Formulate a Theory of Everything (Tim Nguyen)
- Live-tweet of Eric's Chicago Lecture by Sandro Sharashenidze
- Bret and Heather Darkhorse 105: State Lies Coming Across