No Small Endeavor with Lee C. Camp 207: Unabridged Interview: Kristin Neff
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May 9, 2025 
Kristin Neff, a professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, is a leading expert on self-compassion. In this engaging conversation, she highlights how self-compassion is a healthier alternative to self-esteem, arguing that the latter often leads to narcissism and anxiety. Neff shares practical insights on cultivating self-compassion to overcome self-criticism and perfectionism. The discussion delves into cultural influences on self-judgment and the relationship between self-compassion and personal growth, offering a fresh perspective on emotional well-being.
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Limits of High Self-Esteem
- High self-esteem is often contingent and fragile, only present when we succeed.
- It tends to desert us when things go wrong, unlike stable, unconditional self-compassion.
Self-Esteem Fuels Narcissism and Bullying
- High self-esteem linked to bullying, narcissism, and prejudice arises from feeling superior to others.
- It fosters defensiveness and perfectionism, causing unhealthy social dynamics and fear of failure.
Self-Compassion vs Self-Esteem
- Self-compassion provides an unconditional sense of worth based on shared humanity, not judgment of good or bad.
- It supports oneself with kindness during suffering, reducing harsh judgment and shame.
