Challenging Moments With Kids: How To Keep Your Cool (with Psychotherapist Tasha Lansbury)
Nov 22, 2017
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Licensed psychotherapist Tasha Lansbury discusses the importance of self-care and mindfulness in parenting. She offers tools for handling common stressful situations, promoting compassion and mindfulness for effective parenting.
Mindfulness is essential for parents to manage challenging moments and practice self-care as a foundation for effective parenting.
Grounding techniques like focusing on the feet can redirect overwhelming energy and prevent outbursts, promoting emotional balance and resilience in challenging situations.
Deep dives
Benefits of Mindfulness in Parenting
Mindfulness offers valuable tools for parents to manage challenging moments, emphasizing the importance of self-care as a foundation for effective parenting. By utilizing practices like the 'pause' technique, parents can proactively address stress and prevent reactive responses during tense situations. Practicing self-awareness through methods like body checks and breath awareness enhances emotional regulation and fosters a calmer parental approach.
Strategies for Regaining Composure
When parents feel on the verge of losing their temper, grounding techniques like focusing on the feet can redirect overwhelming energy and prevent outbursts. Visualizing harmonious interactions with children and shifting focus from negative self-criticism to self-compassion aids in maintaining emotional balance. By actively engaging with the body and practicing self-forgiveness, parents can navigate challenging moments with resilience and empathy.
Practicing Self-Compassion After Difficult Moments
After instances of parental frustration, it's crucial for individuals to avoid self-blame and adopt a compassionate mindset towards themselves. The concept of 'do no more harm' highlights the significance of refraining from self-criticism and embracing understanding for the hardships of parenting. By extending kindness and empathy towards one's own struggles, parents can cultivate a nurturing environment for themselves and their children, fostering deeper connections and emotional well-being.
Janet and her guest Tasha Lansbury, LICSW, consider the role of self-care and mindfulness as elements of easier, happier, more successful parenting. Tasha has been in private practice for over 3 decades and describes herself as “an enthusiastic psychotherapist and wide-eyed mother.” She believes mindfulness is a parenting essential and offers some simple tools to handle common stressful situations.
For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ).
Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (SessionsAudio.com).
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